"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Present or No?

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ChenCristos

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I've been dating this girl for about 7 months and she is a headcase for sure.. Our relationship has seriously gone down the drain and I wanna break up with her and I'm sure shes the same..everyone wants me to keep her around as an escort to social events and social proof but I'm sick of her AW behavior. We havent chilled in 2 weeks.. we were supposed to chill yesterday but I didnt call her till a little late and she said she was shopping and wasn't going to be coming out in the evening with me ( you domb b1tch!) but I was cool I knew I'd still have a good time (check my FR)- her birthday is tuesday and I'm wondering if I should buy her some cheap present
Heres my thinking
Buy her present then break up with her (no ill feelings)
Don't buy her **** cause doesn't deserve it even though we dated for 7 months...
what you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I haven't read your FR but I'd by her a symbolic gift and then break up with her the day after her birthday. No need to be an ******* because you don't fit well together.
 
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true, I think thats a good idea- at least there wouldnt be any bridge burning so she wont cblock in th future
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sorry, what does "FR" mean? I'm not caught up in my internet lingo, I haven't been here consistently in a while. What's up ChenCristos, I got your PM, and I'm here to help out however I can.
 
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Kill her before her birthday and your problem is solved!!!!
 
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