"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Present or No?

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ChenCristos

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I've been dating this girl for about 7 months and she is a headcase for sure.. Our relationship has seriously gone down the drain and I wanna break up with her and I'm sure shes the same..everyone wants me to keep her around as an escort to social events and social proof but I'm sick of her AW behavior. We havent chilled in 2 weeks.. we were supposed to chill yesterday but I didnt call her till a little late and she said she was shopping and wasn't going to be coming out in the evening with me ( you domb b1tch!) but I was cool I knew I'd still have a good time (check my FR)- her birthday is tuesday and I'm wondering if I should buy her some cheap present
Heres my thinking
Buy her present then break up with her (no ill feelings)
Don't buy her **** cause doesn't deserve it even though we dated for 7 months...
what you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I haven't read your FR but I'd by her a symbolic gift and then break up with her the day after her birthday. No need to be an ******* because you don't fit well together.
 
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true, I think thats a good idea- at least there wouldnt be any bridge burning so she wont cblock in th future
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sorry, what does "FR" mean? I'm not caught up in my internet lingo, I haven't been here consistently in a while. What's up ChenCristos, I got your PM, and I'm here to help out however I can.
 
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Kill her before her birthday and your problem is solved!!!!
 
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