Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Preparing for a night at the club

orly

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I'm not a newbie to the club scene. However due to reasons I won't bother describing, I've never gone out with the objective of meeting girls.

I'm going out again tomorrow. I'll be purposely vague so I can get a broader set of advice.

What should I know? What should I do? What should I not do?

No, I don't mill around the bar or warm the table, but any tips on dancing? I'm not sure if I look like a moron.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mavrick

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If you don't care, it doesn't matter. You bring the party, you don't get the party from them. You bring the fun, not get the fun from them.

Don't care what anyone thinks of you. If you can actually follow this golden rule, you'll be able to do whatever you want.
 

j0n024

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I agree with Mav, I've been at the club maybe 3 times and out of all those times I never gave a sh1t what people thought about me in the club.

I think the best thing you can do is just get a feel for the club, since you've been there before I take it you should know the in's and out's of the scence and should be comfortable, my advice for you is to just start dancing and having a good time ....if you cant do that in a club by yourself then maybe you should start slower.
 

AKA FLEX

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Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

ALWAYS make eye contact with the chick you want to approach. If she returns your gaze, your chance of success just skyrocketed. If she sees you looking and quickly look away, just move on to the next chick.

Even if it takes 4 or 5 chicks before you find one that gives you the "come hither" look, it's a lot easier than doing 5 cold approaches. Great for lazy men like me.
 
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