"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Preparing for a night at the club

orly

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I'm not a newbie to the club scene. However due to reasons I won't bother describing, I've never gone out with the objective of meeting girls.

I'm going out again tomorrow. I'll be purposely vague so I can get a broader set of advice.

What should I know? What should I do? What should I not do?

No, I don't mill around the bar or warm the table, but any tips on dancing? I'm not sure if I look like a moron.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mavrick

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If you don't care, it doesn't matter. You bring the party, you don't get the party from them. You bring the fun, not get the fun from them.

Don't care what anyone thinks of you. If you can actually follow this golden rule, you'll be able to do whatever you want.
 

j0n024

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I agree with Mav, I've been at the club maybe 3 times and out of all those times I never gave a sh1t what people thought about me in the club.

I think the best thing you can do is just get a feel for the club, since you've been there before I take it you should know the in's and out's of the scence and should be comfortable, my advice for you is to just start dancing and having a good time ....if you cant do that in a club by yourself then maybe you should start slower.
 

AKA FLEX

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Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

ALWAYS make eye contact with the chick you want to approach. If she returns your gaze, your chance of success just skyrocketed. If she sees you looking and quickly look away, just move on to the next chick.

Even if it takes 4 or 5 chicks before you find one that gives you the "come hither" look, it's a lot easier than doing 5 cold approaches. Great for lazy men like me.
 
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