"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Preparing for a night at the club

orly

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I'm not a newbie to the club scene. However due to reasons I won't bother describing, I've never gone out with the objective of meeting girls.

I'm going out again tomorrow. I'll be purposely vague so I can get a broader set of advice.

What should I know? What should I do? What should I not do?

No, I don't mill around the bar or warm the table, but any tips on dancing? I'm not sure if I look like a moron.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mavrick

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If you don't care, it doesn't matter. You bring the party, you don't get the party from them. You bring the fun, not get the fun from them.

Don't care what anyone thinks of you. If you can actually follow this golden rule, you'll be able to do whatever you want.
 

j0n024

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I agree with Mav, I've been at the club maybe 3 times and out of all those times I never gave a sh1t what people thought about me in the club.

I think the best thing you can do is just get a feel for the club, since you've been there before I take it you should know the in's and out's of the scence and should be comfortable, my advice for you is to just start dancing and having a good time ....if you cant do that in a club by yourself then maybe you should start slower.
 

AKA FLEX

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Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

ALWAYS make eye contact with the chick you want to approach. If she returns your gaze, your chance of success just skyrocketed. If she sees you looking and quickly look away, just move on to the next chick.

Even if it takes 4 or 5 chicks before you find one that gives you the "come hither" look, it's a lot easier than doing 5 cold approaches. Great for lazy men like me.
 
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