"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whatdude

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man i dont know what to fvcking do.. i think my gf is pregnant. But she tells me that she gets her 'visitor' every month and its healthy. I just dont know whether to belive her or not, because I got to thinking... and she might be wanting to 'trap me'... because she might think that I will leave her like her previous boyfriends. I always ask her if shes pregnant... and she gets all defensive and says she isn't. I told her that I was going to get the test and have her take it in front of me and she told me that it would be a waste of money.

Are there any symptoms or signs that I can pick up on to tell if she is? I mean.. It DOES look like that shes gaining weight. And today my friend asked me if my girl was pregnant cuz her stomach looked bigger. I dont know what to fvcking do.. im only 20. ****.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I think if she was pregnant it would be to her advantage to tell you even if she merley suspected it so that you don't leave. Why would she hide it from you?
 

piterx

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u'r living your nitemare right now..hope u wake up soon ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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T Money

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she's testing you...been there, done that. Let me guess, she asked you something like "What would you do if I HAD the baby, which I won't?"

She wants you to say exactly what I said in this situation "I would marry you for the child's well being."

Women love to test. That's how they know men 10x more than we know them.

Don't trip, she's probably not "late" as she says she is.
 
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