"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pregnancy scare...help pls..only 17

Chrom3y

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Okay so I had sex with my fvck buddy yesterday and here's the deal.

The first time I busted I pulled out and asked if she wanted to go again, she said yea. So I TOOK THE FIRST CONDOM OFF. Then I unwrapped the second one but I guess I was putting it on backwards, so I FLIPPED IT OVER which means now the outside of the condom must have a bit of my sperm on it. Do I have anything to worry about???? My brother said He doubts she's pregnant but he'd get me a morning after pill. Please answer, I'm a senior in high school and I don't need to deal with any pregnancies.. I know even the tiniest bit of sperm can make a girl pregnant, so that's why I'm worried. Help pls!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Come on I seriously need a reply. This is worrying me way too much guys please even just one reply.
 

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Nooooo I know about the morning after pill. But I still wanna know like what are the chances of her being pregnant?? Like what if my brother doesn't get the pill to me in time? Because I only have until tuesday cause thats 72 hours and idk I'm just flippin out right now.
 
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The last 5 girls I've had sex with I didn't use a condom.

My ex girl and I would have sex 3-4 times a night a few months ago with no condom and I hardly wanted to get out of the bed (to shower) because it would be late at night. You're fine. There is little chance she's pregnant. Trust me. Albeit I'm what people may call a "risk taker." Think for yourself. You're more than likely fine my friend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Unless you got the SUPER SPERM, you have very little to worry about.
 

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Most likely not.

This is the reason why your d1ck shoots its load after cvming so it will increase its distance and thus chances of pregnancy. Also Oxygen tends to kill sperm but if there was enough fluid I just don't know.

Give her the morning after pill, just in case.
 

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Thanks, I feel a lil better now. This sh!t sucks. If she does happen to be pregnant then it's straight up abortion, but thanks anyway.
 

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I highly doubt shes pregnant, but if you still feel paranoid, tell her to use the morning after pill
 

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Chrom3y said:
Nooooo I know about the morning after pill. But I still wanna know like what are the chances of her being pregnant?? Like what if my brother doesn't get the pill to me in time? Because I only have until tuesday cause thats 72 hours and idk I'm just flippin out right now.
Go to planned parenthood and get it and watch her take it. Small chance she'll get pregnant, but might as well have her take it anyways..... 30bucks for the pills is a lot better than 18+ years of child support and crushed dreams. She may say she'll get an abortion but once a women is pregnant her natural biology will usually tip her into deciding to have the kid despite how ridicoulus it is and you have no choice at all, but you sure as hell will pay (assuming you in the USA at least)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Having a child is not the end of the world, trust me on this.
Its your biological purpose in life to pass on your genes, which is ultimatly the entire purpose of this forum.

that said, its highly highly unlikely she is pregnant. Most women who are activly trying to get pregnant will wait anything from a few months to a few years for it to happen.
 

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Cure said:
Having a child is not the end of the world, trust me on this.
Its your biological purpose in life to pass on your genes, which is ultimatly the entire purpose of this forum.

that said, its highly highly unlikely she is pregnant. Most women who are activly trying to get pregnant will wait anything from a few months to a few years for it to happen.
Not the end of the world in the sense he'll still be alive. But other than that its pretty bad man. Not sure how things are in London, but in the USA a child at his age is devestating to your finacial future.
 
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EFFORT said:
Not the end of the world in the sense he'll still be alive. But other than that its pretty bad man. Not sure how things are in London, but in the USA a child at his age is devestating to your finacial future.
Indeed. But the truth is that he's fine and we all know it. :up:
 

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Good news guys, she didn't miss her period. So that means she isn't pregnant right? I talked to a few people and everyone said the same thing. The chance of pregnancy is little to none. I swear it feels like I can do a 1000 push ups right now...so relieved. All this stress for bad sex.. wtf
 

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I was going to reply earlier but I didn't have a chance. If the condom you used had Nonoxynol 9 as an ingredient then you didn't have to worry so much because Nonoxynol 9 kills the sperm on contact.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chrom3y said:
Good news guys, she didn't miss her period. So that means she isn't pregnant right? I talked to a few people and everyone said the same thing. The chance of pregnancy is little to none. I swear it feels like I can do a 1000 push ups right now...so relieved. All this stress for bad sex.. wtf
Yep no way shes pregnant while on a period. Congrats, i know you feel like you've won the lottery.
 
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