"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pregnancy scare...help pls..only 17

Chrom3y

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Okay so I had sex with my fvck buddy yesterday and here's the deal.

The first time I busted I pulled out and asked if she wanted to go again, she said yea. So I TOOK THE FIRST CONDOM OFF. Then I unwrapped the second one but I guess I was putting it on backwards, so I FLIPPED IT OVER which means now the outside of the condom must have a bit of my sperm on it. Do I have anything to worry about???? My brother said He doubts she's pregnant but he'd get me a morning after pill. Please answer, I'm a senior in high school and I don't need to deal with any pregnancies.. I know even the tiniest bit of sperm can make a girl pregnant, so that's why I'm worried. Help pls!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Come on I seriously need a reply. This is worrying me way too much guys please even just one reply.
 

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Nooooo I know about the morning after pill. But I still wanna know like what are the chances of her being pregnant?? Like what if my brother doesn't get the pill to me in time? Because I only have until tuesday cause thats 72 hours and idk I'm just flippin out right now.
 
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The last 5 girls I've had sex with I didn't use a condom.

My ex girl and I would have sex 3-4 times a night a few months ago with no condom and I hardly wanted to get out of the bed (to shower) because it would be late at night. You're fine. There is little chance she's pregnant. Trust me. Albeit I'm what people may call a "risk taker." Think for yourself. You're more than likely fine my friend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Unless you got the SUPER SPERM, you have very little to worry about.
 

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Most likely not.

This is the reason why your d1ck shoots its load after cvming so it will increase its distance and thus chances of pregnancy. Also Oxygen tends to kill sperm but if there was enough fluid I just don't know.

Give her the morning after pill, just in case.
 

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Thanks, I feel a lil better now. This sh!t sucks. If she does happen to be pregnant then it's straight up abortion, but thanks anyway.
 

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I highly doubt shes pregnant, but if you still feel paranoid, tell her to use the morning after pill
 

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Chrom3y said:
Nooooo I know about the morning after pill. But I still wanna know like what are the chances of her being pregnant?? Like what if my brother doesn't get the pill to me in time? Because I only have until tuesday cause thats 72 hours and idk I'm just flippin out right now.
Go to planned parenthood and get it and watch her take it. Small chance she'll get pregnant, but might as well have her take it anyways..... 30bucks for the pills is a lot better than 18+ years of child support and crushed dreams. She may say she'll get an abortion but once a women is pregnant her natural biology will usually tip her into deciding to have the kid despite how ridicoulus it is and you have no choice at all, but you sure as hell will pay (assuming you in the USA at least)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Having a child is not the end of the world, trust me on this.
Its your biological purpose in life to pass on your genes, which is ultimatly the entire purpose of this forum.

that said, its highly highly unlikely she is pregnant. Most women who are activly trying to get pregnant will wait anything from a few months to a few years for it to happen.
 

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Cure said:
Having a child is not the end of the world, trust me on this.
Its your biological purpose in life to pass on your genes, which is ultimatly the entire purpose of this forum.

that said, its highly highly unlikely she is pregnant. Most women who are activly trying to get pregnant will wait anything from a few months to a few years for it to happen.
Not the end of the world in the sense he'll still be alive. But other than that its pretty bad man. Not sure how things are in London, but in the USA a child at his age is devestating to your finacial future.
 
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EFFORT said:
Not the end of the world in the sense he'll still be alive. But other than that its pretty bad man. Not sure how things are in London, but in the USA a child at his age is devestating to your finacial future.
Indeed. But the truth is that he's fine and we all know it. :up:
 

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Good news guys, she didn't miss her period. So that means she isn't pregnant right? I talked to a few people and everyone said the same thing. The chance of pregnancy is little to none. I swear it feels like I can do a 1000 push ups right now...so relieved. All this stress for bad sex.. wtf
 

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I was going to reply earlier but I didn't have a chance. If the condom you used had Nonoxynol 9 as an ingredient then you didn't have to worry so much because Nonoxynol 9 kills the sperm on contact.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chrom3y said:
Good news guys, she didn't miss her period. So that means she isn't pregnant right? I talked to a few people and everyone said the same thing. The chance of pregnancy is little to none. I swear it feels like I can do a 1000 push ups right now...so relieved. All this stress for bad sex.. wtf
Yep no way shes pregnant while on a period. Congrats, i know you feel like you've won the lottery.
 
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