"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Predictability

Quantum3k

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Arite guys

First off I've been using the whole Mystery method techniques and a few quite advanced techniques for at least two years now.
I believe that being unpredictable is a great way to keep a girl into you, but I have met one girl who is so much like me that she can almost predict my unpredictability. I'm concerned that she will lose her interest soon unless I do something. I'm not going all soppy or gooey over her and am keeping being a challenge, but I just need to give her something a little more unpredictable! Any ideas would be great

Thanks in advance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thezodiac

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if she can predict your unpredictability then your no being unjpredictable. delivery needs to be worked on or the way you are doing it
 

Tazman

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The very fact that you're worried she's losing interest and you've resorted to using mystery "techniques" to appear a certain way is not going to benefit you. Your insecurities are going to come out sooner or later, then what, more techniques? Why do you think she's not worried about YOU losing interest? I think that's a better question.
 

Desdinova

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This is the downside to using techniques. You cover yourself up with an artificial you. Once it's all peeled away, you've got nothing left but an insecure AFC.

Work on making yourself a better, more attractive person, then you won't have to rely on techniques. You'll naturally come off as confident, and you won't have to worry about keeping the girl.
 
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