"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Predictability

Quantum3k

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Arite guys

First off I've been using the whole Mystery method techniques and a few quite advanced techniques for at least two years now.
I believe that being unpredictable is a great way to keep a girl into you, but I have met one girl who is so much like me that she can almost predict my unpredictability. I'm concerned that she will lose her interest soon unless I do something. I'm not going all soppy or gooey over her and am keeping being a challenge, but I just need to give her something a little more unpredictable! Any ideas would be great

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thezodiac

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if she can predict your unpredictability then your no being unjpredictable. delivery needs to be worked on or the way you are doing it
 

Tazman

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The very fact that you're worried she's losing interest and you've resorted to using mystery "techniques" to appear a certain way is not going to benefit you. Your insecurities are going to come out sooner or later, then what, more techniques? Why do you think she's not worried about YOU losing interest? I think that's a better question.
 

Desdinova

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This is the downside to using techniques. You cover yourself up with an artificial you. Once it's all peeled away, you've got nothing left but an insecure AFC.

Work on making yourself a better, more attractive person, then you won't have to rely on techniques. You'll naturally come off as confident, and you won't have to worry about keeping the girl.
 
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