"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Predictability

Quantum3k

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Arite guys

First off I've been using the whole Mystery method techniques and a few quite advanced techniques for at least two years now.
I believe that being unpredictable is a great way to keep a girl into you, but I have met one girl who is so much like me that she can almost predict my unpredictability. I'm concerned that she will lose her interest soon unless I do something. I'm not going all soppy or gooey over her and am keeping being a challenge, but I just need to give her something a little more unpredictable! Any ideas would be great

Thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thezodiac

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if she can predict your unpredictability then your no being unjpredictable. delivery needs to be worked on or the way you are doing it
 

Tazman

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The very fact that you're worried she's losing interest and you've resorted to using mystery "techniques" to appear a certain way is not going to benefit you. Your insecurities are going to come out sooner or later, then what, more techniques? Why do you think she's not worried about YOU losing interest? I think that's a better question.
 

Desdinova

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This is the downside to using techniques. You cover yourself up with an artificial you. Once it's all peeled away, you've got nothing left but an insecure AFC.

Work on making yourself a better, more attractive person, then you won't have to rely on techniques. You'll naturally come off as confident, and you won't have to worry about keeping the girl.
 
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