"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Predator documentary does it do more damage than good?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
 

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
Like getting on here working out and such totally agree
 
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