"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Predator documentary does it do more damage than good?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
 

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
Like getting on here working out and such totally agree
 
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