"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Predator documentary does it do more damage than good?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
 
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Travel memoir21 said:
I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
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Like getting on here working out and such totally agree
 
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