"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
 

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I think the reason why predatory behavior is so prevalent these days is a lot of factors, things like the onset of the sexual revolution, things like pornography, feminisms, bad social behaviors taught in school and the fact that the West is too damn comfortable with their basic living. Back in the old days, people didn’t have tv and smartphones, they went outside and labored and sexually transmuted their desires into something positive. Now we have a ton of distractions and material gratification which led to depression and sexual assault etc. We need to educate ourselves and learn to resolve them through holistic principles which was taught in the past.
Like getting on here working out and such totally agree
 
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