"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pre-selection scientifically proven

SmoothTalker

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I find it interesting that a lot of the concepts we are aware of in regards to women have probably been known by those that are good with women for generations, but are not necessarily widely known by the average person.

Even though experience and observation have confirmed it for me already, here's an interesting study strongly supporting what we know about social proof and pre-selection.

http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SmoothTalker said:
I find it interesting that a lot of the concepts we are aware of in regards to women have probably been known by those that are good with women for generations, but are not necessarily widely known by the average person.

Even though experience and observation have confirmed it for me already, here's an interesting study strongly supporting what we know about social proof and pre-selection.

http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619
I have a few experiences that attest to that.

One time I was aggressively propositioned by a chick I met at a party. She knew I had a gf at the time and her friend was digging me as well for the same reason.

At a club on my 21st birthday I danced all night with arguably the hottest chick there. I got approached and kissed by some other girl while hot girl was in the bathroom. I also had some other girl grab my face as to kiss me as I walked by with my main chick.

Today for example, I was talking to this girl at the campus and noticed another hot girl looking at me from a distance. She mentioned that she had looked over at me four times and asked if i knew her. A minute later said girl i was talking to asked for my number. Pre-selection at work again.


I don't understand why women are like this but obviously if you want them to chase you more than be around other women.
 

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FutureSpartan said:
I don't understand why women are like this but obviously if you want them to chase you more than be around other women.
It's true. You ever notice how when it rains, it pours? We all have those times where we are just on fire---skirts are chasing you left and right. I think it's the phenomenon of social proof/pre-selection.
 

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Colossus said:
It's true. You ever notice how when it rains, it pours? We all have those times where we are just on fire---skirts are chasing you left and right. I think it's the phenomenon of social proof/pre-selection.
I think this tends to be true more with younger women that are still in high school/college.

Most of their values, likes, dislikes, are defined by their clique of friends. So you have the head alpha chick falling head over heels for a guy and now all of a sudden said guy is getting major flirting from all her friends as well.

You ever wonder where chick drama starts? Usually its her bf cheating with her best friend.
 
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