"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pre-selection scientifically proven

SmoothTalker

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I find it interesting that a lot of the concepts we are aware of in regards to women have probably been known by those that are good with women for generations, but are not necessarily widely known by the average person.

Even though experience and observation have confirmed it for me already, here's an interesting study strongly supporting what we know about social proof and pre-selection.

http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FutureSpartan

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SmoothTalker said:
I find it interesting that a lot of the concepts we are aware of in regards to women have probably been known by those that are good with women for generations, but are not necessarily widely known by the average person.

Even though experience and observation have confirmed it for me already, here's an interesting study strongly supporting what we know about social proof and pre-selection.

http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619
I have a few experiences that attest to that.

One time I was aggressively propositioned by a chick I met at a party. She knew I had a gf at the time and her friend was digging me as well for the same reason.

At a club on my 21st birthday I danced all night with arguably the hottest chick there. I got approached and kissed by some other girl while hot girl was in the bathroom. I also had some other girl grab my face as to kiss me as I walked by with my main chick.

Today for example, I was talking to this girl at the campus and noticed another hot girl looking at me from a distance. She mentioned that she had looked over at me four times and asked if i knew her. A minute later said girl i was talking to asked for my number. Pre-selection at work again.


I don't understand why women are like this but obviously if you want them to chase you more than be around other women.
 

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FutureSpartan said:
I don't understand why women are like this but obviously if you want them to chase you more than be around other women.
It's true. You ever notice how when it rains, it pours? We all have those times where we are just on fire---skirts are chasing you left and right. I think it's the phenomenon of social proof/pre-selection.
 

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Colossus said:
It's true. You ever notice how when it rains, it pours? We all have those times where we are just on fire---skirts are chasing you left and right. I think it's the phenomenon of social proof/pre-selection.
I think this tends to be true more with younger women that are still in high school/college.

Most of their values, likes, dislikes, are defined by their clique of friends. So you have the head alpha chick falling head over heels for a guy and now all of a sudden said guy is getting major flirting from all her friends as well.

You ever wonder where chick drama starts? Usually its her bf cheating with her best friend.
 
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