"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pre-nups don't work against gold digging hoes

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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backbreaker said:
after she is done with him he might need to get back in the NFL. cowboys could use a corner lol.
haha...then again randy moss is coming back so you never know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dear Royal Flush,
"Not in VA!(some sanity in their family law). Adultery is a misdemeanor still." How very interesting tell me please,is Homosexuality legal?do you still have the crime of "enticement"?
 

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There's a lot of old laws in the US that have not been formally repealed. They are still technically laws, but just not enforced by the government. Adultery is still technically a crime in several states. "Sodomy" is often illegal too. Most people think of sodomy as gay sex, but it also includes any sex act considered "unnatural," even getting a bl0wjob from a woman:eek:. According to wikipedia, Virginia's last adultery prosecution was in 2001 and ended in a $125 fine.
 

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I find the whole concept of 'no fault' in a marriage contract puzzling.

If there is 'no fault' then what is the penalty for breaking a contact..none right.

So then what's the value of the marriage CONTRACT...none.

Would this stand in any other business? Of course not.

If Jennifer Aniston one day decides she wants to bail on a movie producer after taking his money or even on her signing on the line..she would be sued for breach of contract.

How can we as a society supposedly 'value' marriage but then give the contract of marriage no teeth?

...And still many spend upwards of 50K on the ceremony...have we all gone collectively insane?
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Since every state has no-fault divorce, in the eyes of the law cheating is completely irrelevant.
Not true. Many states still have at-fault divorce in addition to no-fault. For example, in Maryland if you want a no-fault divorce, you have to live separate or 1 year and jump through some hoops. However, if one of the spouses cheated, was convicted of a felony, and a few other things, then you can get a divorce in a matter of weeks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nutz said:
Not true. Many states still have at-fault divorce in addition to no-fault. For example, in Maryland if you want a no-fault divorce, you have to live separate or 1 year and jump through some hoops. However, if one of the spouses cheated, was convicted of a felony, and a few other things, then you can get a divorce in a matter of weeks.
I don't disagree, but what you're talking about is simply being granted the divorce more quickly. It does not relate to the division of assets. The woman still gets half of everything if she cheats and just as much child support and alimony. That rule is good in every state. The law considers the idea of punishing a woman for adultery to be antiquated, archaic, and well, un-feminist. Shame on anyone who thinks that way, shame shame! :nono:
 

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There is only 1 state in the country that doesn't have no fault divorce. New York. You need a real reason to divorce. Usually this is accomplished by moving out for a year and claiming abandoment.

This has absolutely nothing to do with determinations of custody, asset splits, alimony, or cookies. What we need to bring back is the idea that the person who splits the marriage should bear the brunt. Woman cheats, expect to be thrown out without alimony or anything, and if she's the breadwinner expect alimony payments. Man leaves his wife to live with his former student, he should still have to take care of them for a time.
 

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scrouds said:
There is only 1 state in the country that doesn't have no fault divorce. New York.
Not anymore. They introduced no-fault in 2010 or 2011. It's a thing now.
 
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