"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pre-nups don't work against gold digging hoes

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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backbreaker said:
after she is done with him he might need to get back in the NFL. cowboys could use a corner lol.
haha...then again randy moss is coming back so you never know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dear Royal Flush,
"Not in VA!(some sanity in their family law). Adultery is a misdemeanor still." How very interesting tell me please,is Homosexuality legal?do you still have the crime of "enticement"?
 

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There's a lot of old laws in the US that have not been formally repealed. They are still technically laws, but just not enforced by the government. Adultery is still technically a crime in several states. "Sodomy" is often illegal too. Most people think of sodomy as gay sex, but it also includes any sex act considered "unnatural," even getting a bl0wjob from a woman:eek:. According to wikipedia, Virginia's last adultery prosecution was in 2001 and ended in a $125 fine.
 

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I find the whole concept of 'no fault' in a marriage contract puzzling.

If there is 'no fault' then what is the penalty for breaking a contact..none right.

So then what's the value of the marriage CONTRACT...none.

Would this stand in any other business? Of course not.

If Jennifer Aniston one day decides she wants to bail on a movie producer after taking his money or even on her signing on the line..she would be sued for breach of contract.

How can we as a society supposedly 'value' marriage but then give the contract of marriage no teeth?

...And still many spend upwards of 50K on the ceremony...have we all gone collectively insane?
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Since every state has no-fault divorce, in the eyes of the law cheating is completely irrelevant.
Not true. Many states still have at-fault divorce in addition to no-fault. For example, in Maryland if you want a no-fault divorce, you have to live separate or 1 year and jump through some hoops. However, if one of the spouses cheated, was convicted of a felony, and a few other things, then you can get a divorce in a matter of weeks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nutz said:
Not true. Many states still have at-fault divorce in addition to no-fault. For example, in Maryland if you want a no-fault divorce, you have to live separate or 1 year and jump through some hoops. However, if one of the spouses cheated, was convicted of a felony, and a few other things, then you can get a divorce in a matter of weeks.
I don't disagree, but what you're talking about is simply being granted the divorce more quickly. It does not relate to the division of assets. The woman still gets half of everything if she cheats and just as much child support and alimony. That rule is good in every state. The law considers the idea of punishing a woman for adultery to be antiquated, archaic, and well, un-feminist. Shame on anyone who thinks that way, shame shame! :nono:
 

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There is only 1 state in the country that doesn't have no fault divorce. New York. You need a real reason to divorce. Usually this is accomplished by moving out for a year and claiming abandoment.

This has absolutely nothing to do with determinations of custody, asset splits, alimony, or cookies. What we need to bring back is the idea that the person who splits the marriage should bear the brunt. Woman cheats, expect to be thrown out without alimony or anything, and if she's the breadwinner expect alimony payments. Man leaves his wife to live with his former student, he should still have to take care of them for a time.
 

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scrouds said:
There is only 1 state in the country that doesn't have no fault divorce. New York.
Not anymore. They introduced no-fault in 2010 or 2011. It's a thing now.
 
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