"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Practicing on a girl that you don't like?

Energy25

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I am a freshman in college and have very little experience in dating. There is this girl who goes to my high school that I knew from last year that I KNOW likes me. I don't like her, but she isn't terribly ugly though. She wants to hangout over spring break. Should I take her up on it and just use it as practice. I am very confident around her because I know she likes me and I figure it would be good practice for when I want to take out a girl for real. What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ice882

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I've done that. Seems like its working out pretty well.
 

Jhcl4000

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Gotta say, it's WAAAAAAY different to "practice" on a girl you don't like vs. a girl you do like. Talking with a chick you're not attracted to is like talking to guys.
 

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Jhcl4000 said:
Gotta say, it's WAAAAAAY different to "practice" on a girl you don't like vs. a girl you do like. Talking with a chick you're not attracted to is like talking to guys.
Yeah I guess thats true....but I figure its better than not going out at all?
 
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