"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Practicing on a girl that you don't like?

Energy25

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I am a freshman in college and have very little experience in dating. There is this girl who goes to my high school that I knew from last year that I KNOW likes me. I don't like her, but she isn't terribly ugly though. She wants to hangout over spring break. Should I take her up on it and just use it as practice. I am very confident around her because I know she likes me and I figure it would be good practice for when I want to take out a girl for real. What do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ice882

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I've done that. Seems like its working out pretty well.
 

Jhcl4000

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Gotta say, it's WAAAAAAY different to "practice" on a girl you don't like vs. a girl you do like. Talking with a chick you're not attracted to is like talking to guys.
 

Energy25

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Jhcl4000 said:
Gotta say, it's WAAAAAAY different to "practice" on a girl you don't like vs. a girl you do like. Talking with a chick you're not attracted to is like talking to guys.
Yeah I guess thats true....but I figure its better than not going out at all?
 
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