I am a freshman in college and have very little experience in dating. There is this girl who goes to my high school that I knew from last year that I KNOW likes me. I don't like her, but she isn't terribly ugly though. She wants to hangout over spring break. Should I take her up on it and just use it as practice. I am very confident around her because I know she likes me and I figure it would be good practice for when I want to take out a girl for real. What do you think?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Practicing on a girl that you don't like?
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