"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Powerful Article About The Black Male Don Juan

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just don't see how its that much different than white dudes...or asian dudes or hispanic dudes...

Unless you are saying that you have a much smaller pool of like minded people to choose to be friends with. Personally since I have very few friends(lifelong friends whom I am very close with and consider like brothers) and many acquaintances who I will hang out with here and there, I'd say there isn't much difference unless you are saying its different because I'm white which I don't necessarily agree with.
 

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https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/lonely-path-successful-black-man-professor-silvester-henderson/

I had to share this article, just read it. This article explains a lot of what I've detailed on this board over the last 3 years, of my personal challenges, issues, and experiences being a "successful" black man and how many times.......you are very LONELY as a result.

Just read it, very powerful piece.
so is being black all you have to talk about???? is this the only way you identify yourself??? you're right, it is tough being a successful black man, you're a legend in your own mind, lol, smh, what a dope.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so is being black all you have to talk about???? is this the only way you identify yourself??? you're right, it is tough being a successful black man, you're a legend in your own mind, lol, smh, what a dope.
They live in the richest country on Earth yet still act like they're oppressed as they mooch off the government.

Minimum wage in Mexico is $5/day USD. How would they like it there?
 

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How come black people can't talk about anything other than that they're black.

It's pretty annoying.
How come you can't talk about anything other than your robot penis, blow and hookers.

It's really annoying.
 

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I just don't see how its that much different than white dudes...or asian dudes or hispanic dudes...

Unless you are saying that you have a much smaller pool of like minded people to choose to be friends with. Personally since I have very few friends(lifelong friends whom I am very close with and consider like brothers) and many acquaintances who I will hang out with here and there, I'd say there isn't much difference unless you are saying its different because I'm white which I don't necessarily agree with.
Why is your initial instinct to outright deny anything a black person says? I’m not trying to be an @$$, but I just want to know. I have a theory that involves our human brains.
 

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Also @Tenacity, ever since I got my new job, nice car, and moved to a well known affluent part of my city, part of my family have began to be extremely passive aggressive towards me. For example, my uncle told me that I’m heading towards a wrong path and ranted on me on how I should quit my job and become an artist. My grandma told my dad she didn’t want me over for thanksgiving and I remember her telling me that I just need to live in her small town and work at Mcdonalds with a COLLEGE DEGREE.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why is your initial instinct to outright deny anything a black person says? I’m not trying to be an @$$, but I just want to know. I have a theory that involves our human brains.
It's not. My opinions come from growing up in an all black neighborhood and being a part of it all...mostly black friends growing up, spent lots of time over at various houses, understand a lot of the mindset, etc.

I feel more comfortable hanging out with black people than I do with white people even today...

I speak from experience in a way 95% of white people can't.
 
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