"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Powerful Article About The Black Male Don Juan

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I just don't see how its that much different than white dudes...or asian dudes or hispanic dudes...

Unless you are saying that you have a much smaller pool of like minded people to choose to be friends with. Personally since I have very few friends(lifelong friends whom I am very close with and consider like brothers) and many acquaintances who I will hang out with here and there, I'd say there isn't much difference unless you are saying its different because I'm white which I don't necessarily agree with.
 

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https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/lonely-path-successful-black-man-professor-silvester-henderson/

I had to share this article, just read it. This article explains a lot of what I've detailed on this board over the last 3 years, of my personal challenges, issues, and experiences being a "successful" black man and how many times.......you are very LONELY as a result.

Just read it, very powerful piece.
so is being black all you have to talk about???? is this the only way you identify yourself??? you're right, it is tough being a successful black man, you're a legend in your own mind, lol, smh, what a dope.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so is being black all you have to talk about???? is this the only way you identify yourself??? you're right, it is tough being a successful black man, you're a legend in your own mind, lol, smh, what a dope.
They live in the richest country on Earth yet still act like they're oppressed as they mooch off the government.

Minimum wage in Mexico is $5/day USD. How would they like it there?
 

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How come black people can't talk about anything other than that they're black.

It's pretty annoying.
How come you can't talk about anything other than your robot penis, blow and hookers.

It's really annoying.
 

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I just don't see how its that much different than white dudes...or asian dudes or hispanic dudes...

Unless you are saying that you have a much smaller pool of like minded people to choose to be friends with. Personally since I have very few friends(lifelong friends whom I am very close with and consider like brothers) and many acquaintances who I will hang out with here and there, I'd say there isn't much difference unless you are saying its different because I'm white which I don't necessarily agree with.
Why is your initial instinct to outright deny anything a black person says? I’m not trying to be an @$$, but I just want to know. I have a theory that involves our human brains.
 

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Also @Tenacity, ever since I got my new job, nice car, and moved to a well known affluent part of my city, part of my family have began to be extremely passive aggressive towards me. For example, my uncle told me that I’m heading towards a wrong path and ranted on me on how I should quit my job and become an artist. My grandma told my dad she didn’t want me over for thanksgiving and I remember her telling me that I just need to live in her small town and work at Mcdonalds with a COLLEGE DEGREE.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why is your initial instinct to outright deny anything a black person says? I’m not trying to be an @$$, but I just want to know. I have a theory that involves our human brains.
It's not. My opinions come from growing up in an all black neighborhood and being a part of it all...mostly black friends growing up, spent lots of time over at various houses, understand a lot of the mindset, etc.

I feel more comfortable hanging out with black people than I do with white people even today...

I speak from experience in a way 95% of white people can't.
 
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