"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Power of a hug

djweses89

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In my experience with the last few women I have been with I have noticed how wonderful a hug can work. Being a growing DJ myself started working well with women, but I was also trying to find my own small ways of improving my DJ skills. Ive been doing great meeting plenty of new women taking them out having a good time hooking up, but I have continued to notice that when meeting someone I've talked to prior before meeting there was a bit of physical tension between me and the other person; of course that went away after the night went through but it took way too long just to break that small tension. So what did I do? I found a way to take that small tension away, meeting with the girls I was talking to I would talk to them the night before on the phone or so, and after having a casual convo I would say " I am gunna get my hug when you first see me tomorrow right? " and of course they would all say yea of course why wouldn't you, I mean who doesn't love a good hug. So I have come to realize that those hugs killed any physical tension there was floating around so now instead of ending the night with just some simple hand holding I am ending my night with kissing , making out, mabey even more. So remember get your hugs there worth it and you will also feel a lot more better around the person you are with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sbgm

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Yeah, I hugged a girl for joke once, (knew she was gonna diss me but she didn't) and after that, she was all over me. But i didn't went for her, cause my AFc mind was just focusing on 1 girl :(
 

michaelhctam

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djweses89 said:
In my experience with the last few women I have been with I have noticed how wonderful a hug can work. Being a growing DJ myself started working well with women, but I was also trying to find my own small ways of improving my DJ skills. Ive been doing great meeting plenty of new women taking them out having a good time hooking up, but I have continued to notice that when meeting someone I've talked to prior before meeting there was a bit of physical tension between me and the other person; of course that went away after the night went through but it took way too long just to break that small tension. So what did I do? I found a way to take that small tension away, meeting with the girls I was talking to I would talk to them the night before on the phone or so, and after having a casual convo I would say " I am gunna get my hug when you first see me tomorrow right? " and of course they would all say yea of course why wouldn't you, I mean who doesn't love a good hug. So I have come to realize that those hugs killed any physical tension there was floating around so now instead of ending the night with just some simple hand holding I am ending my night with kissing , making out, mabey even more. So remember get your hugs there worth it and you will also feel a lot more better around the person you are with.
I use to give girls massive bear like hugs they loved it.

Also its a great way to cope a feel. HAHA
 

bigw

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Lol would it be acceptable to just hug them when I first see them on dates?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Docs

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I always hug. It indeed breaks any physical tension, establishes that you like to touch, you get to smell her, show her how manly you are when you squeeze her...

Vital ^_^
 

DontQuitYet

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I don't mean to hijack this post but...I've been critizized on my hugs before. There are many different hugs to women. If you put your hands too high on their backs it means "just friends". The lower the better.
 

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i have hugged more men than girls in my life. i am proud of that.

for the 100th time...hugs are not weak. they are not romantic. girls hug everything. while you are getting off on it she is thinking about what sounds good for dessert.
 

The Shocker

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nice copy and paste.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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