"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Power of a hug

djweses89

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In my experience with the last few women I have been with I have noticed how wonderful a hug can work. Being a growing DJ myself started working well with women, but I was also trying to find my own small ways of improving my DJ skills. Ive been doing great meeting plenty of new women taking them out having a good time hooking up, but I have continued to notice that when meeting someone I've talked to prior before meeting there was a bit of physical tension between me and the other person; of course that went away after the night went through but it took way too long just to break that small tension. So what did I do? I found a way to take that small tension away, meeting with the girls I was talking to I would talk to them the night before on the phone or so, and after having a casual convo I would say " I am gunna get my hug when you first see me tomorrow right? " and of course they would all say yea of course why wouldn't you, I mean who doesn't love a good hug. So I have come to realize that those hugs killed any physical tension there was floating around so now instead of ending the night with just some simple hand holding I am ending my night with kissing , making out, mabey even more. So remember get your hugs there worth it and you will also feel a lot more better around the person you are with.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sbgm

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Yeah, I hugged a girl for joke once, (knew she was gonna diss me but she didn't) and after that, she was all over me. But i didn't went for her, cause my AFc mind was just focusing on 1 girl :(
 

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djweses89 said:
In my experience with the last few women I have been with I have noticed how wonderful a hug can work. Being a growing DJ myself started working well with women, but I was also trying to find my own small ways of improving my DJ skills. Ive been doing great meeting plenty of new women taking them out having a good time hooking up, but I have continued to notice that when meeting someone I've talked to prior before meeting there was a bit of physical tension between me and the other person; of course that went away after the night went through but it took way too long just to break that small tension. So what did I do? I found a way to take that small tension away, meeting with the girls I was talking to I would talk to them the night before on the phone or so, and after having a casual convo I would say " I am gunna get my hug when you first see me tomorrow right? " and of course they would all say yea of course why wouldn't you, I mean who doesn't love a good hug. So I have come to realize that those hugs killed any physical tension there was floating around so now instead of ending the night with just some simple hand holding I am ending my night with kissing , making out, mabey even more. So remember get your hugs there worth it and you will also feel a lot more better around the person you are with.
I use to give girls massive bear like hugs they loved it.

Also its a great way to cope a feel. HAHA
 

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Lol would it be acceptable to just hug them when I first see them on dates?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I always hug. It indeed breaks any physical tension, establishes that you like to touch, you get to smell her, show her how manly you are when you squeeze her...

Vital ^_^
 

DontQuitYet

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I don't mean to hijack this post but...I've been critizized on my hugs before. There are many different hugs to women. If you put your hands too high on their backs it means "just friends". The lower the better.
 

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i have hugged more men than girls in my life. i am proud of that.

for the 100th time...hugs are not weak. they are not romantic. girls hug everything. while you are getting off on it she is thinking about what sounds good for dessert.
 

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nice copy and paste.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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