In my experience with the last few women I have been with I have noticed how wonderful a hug can work. Being a growing DJ myself started working well with women, but I was also trying to find my own small ways of improving my DJ skills. Ive been doing great meeting plenty of new women taking them out having a good time hooking up, but I have continued to notice that when meeting someone I've talked to prior before meeting there was a bit of physical tension between me and the other person; of course that went away after the night went through but it took way too long just to break that small tension. So what did I do? I found a way to take that small tension away, meeting with the girls I was talking to I would talk to them the night before on the phone or so, and after having a casual convo I would say " I am gunna get my hug when you first see me tomorrow right? " and of course they would all say yea of course why wouldn't you, I mean who doesn't love a good hug. So I have come to realize that those hugs killed any physical tension there was floating around so now instead of ending the night with just some simple hand holding I am ending my night with kissing , making out, mabey even more. So remember get your hugs there worth it and you will also feel a lot more better around the person you are with.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Power of a hug
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I use to give girls massive bear like hugs they loved it.djweses89 said:
Also its a great way to cope a feel. HAHA
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yes its a great way to get kino going
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I always hug. It indeed breaks any physical tension, establishes that you like to touch, you get to smell her, show her how manly you are when you squeeze her...
Vital ^_^
Vital ^_^
DontQuitYet
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I don't mean to hijack this post but...I've been critizized on my hugs before. There are many different hugs to women. If you put your hands too high on their backs it means "just friends". The lower the better.
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i have hugged more men than girls in my life. i am proud of that.
for the 100th time...hugs are not weak. they are not romantic. girls hug everything. while you are getting off on it she is thinking about what sounds good for dessert.
for the 100th time...hugs are not weak. they are not romantic. girls hug everything. while you are getting off on it she is thinking about what sounds good for dessert.
DontQuitYet
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lol, beautifully put.sparky0000 said:
The Shocker
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nice copy and paste.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.