"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stallionstud

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Wow that’s great man. Congratulations. Guess I was wrong ‍♂
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ryan Adams

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yeah completely took me by surprise. I just knew the had a thing for me but she wouldn't really show it unless she got drunk. but I mean when we went out. sat night. she literally grabbed my hand to hold it while walking. and was clinging on me like i was her savior all night haha. we took a group photo and in the photo she is literally wrapped around me staring up at me while everyone is smiling for the camera.
 

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Wait what? How did you chat? You Facebooked her didn’t you?
facebooking someone isnt a weak move bro i do it all the time, you have to look at it differently whats weak is when you DONT spk to them out, then add them then try and start a convo, this is the mistake blokes make.....also dont add then message within 72 hours
 

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OP What are you doing bro!!!!! how long have you been on the board?????? i keep reading you going out with groups you did this in the last post !!!!
you turn this down and you arrange a night FOR YOU even if you have to sit in sucking ya thumb watching the titanic!!!!!!!,

then youve put "friends said shes like this"

WHY ARE YOU GOSSIPING TO OTHER PEOPLE ABOUT ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ryan Adams

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I mean she flaked on her prior plans to go with me then was holding my hand. all over me we kissed before I dropped her off etc im.pretty sure she is feeling me lol. now here is where I usually mess up from this point on hahah
 
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