"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Posture - how to keep correct posture

Magnatolia

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Hi all,

I've been trying to pull my shoulders back and sit straight, but it seems to be almost like I'm using muscles to keep my shoulders back. And I end up tired. Is this normal?

Are there any techniques for improving this?

Thanks
Jason
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have a slight turtle neck from studying too much, does anyone know any exercises to correct this?
 

jive

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Look up the Alexander technique (practiced and recommended by Neil Strauss aka Style)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Cruise

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Try circuit training workouts... this could simply just be a product of a weak frame.

or

Yoga (I know I know...) is known for producing excellent, firm, flexible, sturdy posture... (I deserve a check for the ad)...

Think confident, project confidence...
 

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jive said:
Look up the Alexander technique (practiced and recommended by Neil Strauss aka Style)
Do you practice Alexander Technique, or have you ever gone for a lesson?
 

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If you have insurance and the money, go to a chiropractor. I was going for posture reasons and b/c my neck was toooo stretch forward like a dinosaur. Within the 4-6 months I was standing at a wonderful posture without putting any kind of effort into it. I was told I got taller but really my slumped shoulders were actually in the place they needed to be and I was standing str8 with my head up and not leaned forward.

I went to a chiro for one year. I fell back a lot though but that's b/c I haven't put into practice the things I learned to keep maintaince but it is well worth it in my opinion.
 

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noneother said:
i have a slight turtle neck from studying too much, does anyone know any exercises to correct this?
Lye on your back at your bed and at the edge, let your neck and head hang in the air for 5 minutes. 2x daily everyday. When I was going to a chiro I had weights that started at 2lbs and increased very, very slowly until I was at 10lbs. Never use more than 10lbs if you have something to add weight.
 
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