"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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post your sweeeet ideas for neg hits here!

CapiCrimini

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yeah I thought you sounded college, but I can never be too sure... as to...

And how many high school students refer to their last classes as "last semester"
I know a few...

How many high school classes do you know where you have class 1x/week?
two... but with Block Schedule you can have 2x clases a week.Which is close.

Anyway I missed those hints... k
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Me: I like your nails.
Her: oh yeah thanks.. etc etc
Me: are they fake?
 

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Just wanted to dig into ya, capi. Why did you get banned anyway?


Kevin,

The more common way that neg is delivered is:

DJ: I like your nails.
HB: Thanks, bla bla bla
DJ: Are they real?
HB: *laughs* no...


Anyone have some good contextual ones?
 

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Nice Outfit........ I saw the same one on ebay

Nice Tits........... Are they real? If no, is the milk real at least?

If her legs are open: "Nice legs, do they ever close?"

Her: (Spits out a diss at me)
Me: You know I would've been offended by that if you looked good. (Ok not really a neg hit but it works when defending yourself)

You look good....... Don't get all big headed now!

You look alright........For a girl

I like the shape of your pants LOL

In the club dancing with a girl with a big azz
Wow girl back that azz up, then go beep beep beep like a truck is backing up.

I got more if yall want em
People call me the negative hitman :cool:
 

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I play hockey...
so this girl says "I hate hockey players" i didnt say a thing. So later on she was talking about softball, so I ask if she plays she says yah so I say"I hate softball players"

Another girl had this cinnimin lip stuff, she was handing it out to a bunch of girls, so I tell her shes a cinnimin slut. She had a good laugh.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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haha i just remembered one

me: why do you have to talk with your mouth full? i cant help but see a whole ball of leafy greens roll about each time you open up.

her: -looks embarassed-

me: its alright, i understand that you can't get enough of talking to me -huge grin-

her: hahaha.. sorry i didnt realize i was being so rude... but you're a great guy to talk to. :)


not anything that bad.. but well, this worked, she spent the rest of the evening trying to get back in my good graces. heh
 

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I think too many people here, when they use the term "neg-hit", suddenly think of it as some kind of battle-tactic or special skill that only "true Don Juans" know about.

The "neg-hit" is just a fancy term used by the ASF folks to describe good old fashioned friendly teasing, which has gone on for centuries between boys and girls. When you tease a woman, without actually p!ssing her off/hurting her feelings, you set her up in a position where she has to qualify herself to you. If she's attractive, she's so used to being treated like royalty that she'll be intrigued by this guy who refuses to kiss her azz.
 

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Just wanted to dig into ya, capi. Why did you get banned anyway?
I'm never to sure... They didn't send me an official list of reasons. I took a break for a week, showed up and I was banned and couldn't acces anything.

I never cared. Not many people like me on this bored. So i expect things like this to happen all the time.

The first time I was banned though. They told me it was because to many people were flaming me so I was causeing too much disorder. Told me to create a new SN.

The "neg-hit" is just a fancy term used by the ASF folks to describe good old fashioned friendly teasing, which has gone on for centuries between boys and girls.
Great explaination
 
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