"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Post your picture ONLY
- Thread starter stallion
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
my photograph, if u care! ha
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OUNZSES&key=MVB
I believe that is the correct link
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OUNZSES&key=MVB
I believe that is the correct link
DrBeard
Banned
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZNREEG&key=PLX
Please vote for me and help me get more than 9! People keep voting me down to be spiteful!
Please vote for me and help me get more than 9! People keep voting me down to be spiteful!
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZKRBER&key=UDK
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/4381937
Two more pics in the myspace picture gallery
My "Ugly Duckling" Phase (about 5-6 years ago.
http://img38.exs.cx/my.php?loc=img38&image=ugly7.jpg
My exLTR's myspace page - I'm surious, what would you all rate her?
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/5980693
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/4381937
Two more pics in the myspace picture gallery
My "Ugly Duckling" Phase (about 5-6 years ago.
http://img38.exs.cx/my.php?loc=img38&image=ugly7.jpg
My exLTR's myspace page - I'm surious, what would you all rate her?
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/5980693
Tha Realnezz
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 12, 2004
- Messages
- 1,352
- Reaction score
- 8
Let me see if this can show here...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
comment on my picture
http://vhalin.nuclearfallout.net/picture006.jpeg
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*Edit: PM xomel with comments on his picture.*
http://vhalin.nuclearfallout.net/picture006.jpeg
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*Edit: PM xomel with comments on his picture.*
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2003
- Messages
- 763
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 40
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZOUE8S&key=WKC
i got it up there eventually, feel free to PM me what oyu think.
P.S this is a photo from over a year ago, i look much better now, i will post a newer picture soon enough!
i got it up there eventually, feel free to PM me what oyu think.
P.S this is a photo from over a year ago, i look much better now, i will post a newer picture soon enough!
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
I shaved my head for the swimming state championships last February but did this first. I liked it, but no one else seemed to:
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8GQK8B&key=LYV
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8GQK8B&key=LYV
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
FreeStyleZ
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 26, 2003
- Messages
- 358
- Reaction score
- 3
Squy
Master Don Juan
another new picture, taken in the weekend.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/IMG_11091.jpg
i'm the asian guy btw.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/IMG_11091.jpg
i'm the asian guy btw.
Post cleaned of dead links
Ok...With the help of baseballDJ we have deleted all of the dead links. If you had a photo here and it was deleted this means that your link was dead.
BaseballDJ checked the link first and then I checked it. Thanks for posting your photos. If you need to post or repost then go right ahead.
Thanks again baseballDJ.
Ok...With the help of baseballDJ we have deleted all of the dead links. If you had a photo here and it was deleted this means that your link was dead.
BaseballDJ checked the link first and then I checked it. Thanks for posting your photos. If you need to post or repost then go right ahead.
Thanks again baseballDJ.
The "post your picture thread"
I've gone through several pages of search and couldn't find a thread on pictures...
so post your picture
if you need a place to host your picture go
http://imageshack.us
here's me!
by the way, several women rate me a "7"
I thought I would be somewhere around "4" LOL
http://members.shaw.ca/tommy86/meh.jpg
I've gone through several pages of search and couldn't find a thread on pictures...
so post your picture
if you need a place to host your picture go
http://imageshack.us
here's me!
by the way, several women rate me a "7"
I thought I would be somewhere around "4" LOL
http://members.shaw.ca/tommy86/meh.jpg
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PrinceAli313
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 9, 2004
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- 12
- Reaction score
- 0
Pugsley_f5
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 4, 2004
- Messages
- 373
- Reaction score
- 2
i don't have very many good pics of me on the computer, but here are a few:
setting up stuff for open house at school
with some people from school (i'm the chick, obviously)
lol, my butt!
and, for your amusement, me drunk off my butt with a deflated ball on my head while camping at the lake
setting up stuff for open house at school
with some people from school (i'm the chick, obviously)
lol, my butt!
and, for your amusement, me drunk off my butt with a deflated ball on my head while camping at the lake
MidwestFreek
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 12, 2004
- Messages
- 209
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 37
It's a slide show, be sure to click on the next button
http://community.webshots.com/slideshow?ID=223192991&key=qazNxj
since the slide show doesn't work by itself
This was because it was my first day with a digital camera. Hee hee.
http://community.webshots.com/slideshow?ID=223192991&key=qazNxj
since the slide show doesn't work by itself
This was because it was my first day with a digital camera. Hee hee.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.