"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Post your picture ONLY
- Thread starter stallion
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
my photograph, if u care! ha
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OUNZSES&key=MVB
I believe that is the correct link
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OUNZSES&key=MVB
I believe that is the correct link
DrBeard
Banned
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZNREEG&key=PLX
Please vote for me and help me get more than 9! People keep voting me down to be spiteful!
Please vote for me and help me get more than 9! People keep voting me down to be spiteful!
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZKRBER&key=UDK
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/4381937
Two more pics in the myspace picture gallery
My "Ugly Duckling" Phase (about 5-6 years ago.
http://img38.exs.cx/my.php?loc=img38&image=ugly7.jpg
My exLTR's myspace page - I'm surious, what would you all rate her?
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/5980693
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/4381937
Two more pics in the myspace picture gallery
My "Ugly Duckling" Phase (about 5-6 years ago.
http://img38.exs.cx/my.php?loc=img38&image=ugly7.jpg
My exLTR's myspace page - I'm surious, what would you all rate her?
http://profiles.myspace.com/users/5980693
Tha Realnezz
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 12, 2004
- Messages
- 1,352
- Reaction score
- 8
Let me see if this can show here...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
comment on my picture
http://vhalin.nuclearfallout.net/picture006.jpeg
:]
*Edit: PM xomel with comments on his picture.*
http://vhalin.nuclearfallout.net/picture006.jpeg
:]
*Edit: PM xomel with comments on his picture.*
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2003
- Messages
- 763
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 40
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=OZOUE8S&key=WKC
i got it up there eventually, feel free to PM me what oyu think.
P.S this is a photo from over a year ago, i look much better now, i will post a newer picture soon enough!
i got it up there eventually, feel free to PM me what oyu think.
P.S this is a photo from over a year ago, i look much better now, i will post a newer picture soon enough!
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
I shaved my head for the swimming state championships last February but did this first. I liked it, but no one else seemed to:
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8GQK8B&key=LYV
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=O8GQK8B&key=LYV
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FreeStyleZ
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 26, 2003
- Messages
- 358
- Reaction score
- 3
Squy
Master Don Juan
another new picture, taken in the weekend.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/IMG_11091.jpg
i'm the asian guy btw.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v173/gSQUYrb/IMG_11091.jpg
i'm the asian guy btw.
Post cleaned of dead links
Ok...With the help of baseballDJ we have deleted all of the dead links. If you had a photo here and it was deleted this means that your link was dead.
BaseballDJ checked the link first and then I checked it. Thanks for posting your photos. If you need to post or repost then go right ahead.
Thanks again baseballDJ.
Ok...With the help of baseballDJ we have deleted all of the dead links. If you had a photo here and it was deleted this means that your link was dead.
BaseballDJ checked the link first and then I checked it. Thanks for posting your photos. If you need to post or repost then go right ahead.
Thanks again baseballDJ.
The "post your picture thread"
I've gone through several pages of search and couldn't find a thread on pictures...
so post your picture
if you need a place to host your picture go
http://imageshack.us
here's me!
by the way, several women rate me a "7"
I thought I would be somewhere around "4" LOL
http://members.shaw.ca/tommy86/meh.jpg
I've gone through several pages of search and couldn't find a thread on pictures...
so post your picture
if you need a place to host your picture go
http://imageshack.us
here's me!
by the way, several women rate me a "7"
I thought I would be somewhere around "4" LOL
http://members.shaw.ca/tommy86/meh.jpg
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PrinceAli313
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 9, 2004
- Messages
- 12
- Reaction score
- 0
Pugsley_f5
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 4, 2004
- Messages
- 373
- Reaction score
- 2
i don't have very many good pics of me on the computer, but here are a few:
setting up stuff for open house at school
with some people from school (i'm the chick, obviously)
lol, my butt!
and, for your amusement, me drunk off my butt with a deflated ball on my head while camping at the lake
setting up stuff for open house at school
with some people from school (i'm the chick, obviously)
lol, my butt!
and, for your amusement, me drunk off my butt with a deflated ball on my head while camping at the lake
MidwestFreek
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 12, 2004
- Messages
- 209
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 37
It's a slide show, be sure to click on the next button
http://community.webshots.com/slideshow?ID=223192991&key=qazNxj
since the slide show doesn't work by itself
This was because it was my first day with a digital camera. Hee hee.
http://community.webshots.com/slideshow?ID=223192991&key=qazNxj
since the slide show doesn't work by itself
This was because it was my first day with a digital camera. Hee hee.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.