"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
booty-naughtyness-spur
Senior Don Juan
Squy
Master Don Juan
REd-xL
Master Don Juan
Actually, this one is 3 years old. Notice the bad clothing and stupid hair.
Random webcam pics and movies.
A bunch of pics from over the holidays.
More silly webcam pics.
No, that's not sh!t smeared on our faces....
These are over a month old. I'm a lot bigger now.
Rx
Blog: http://www.livejournal.com/users/charlatan
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=AQEZKQ
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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jbbrain
Master Don Juan
thats me in mexico, tanned, relaxed, probably posing (just a little)
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Beebo
Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NZR8K8B&key=WUH
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PiHiPlaya
Master Don Juan
Ded_Skin_Mask13
Banned
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Those were taken at the beach with my GQ shades on...
This is the lastest photo of me:
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Damn, I gotta find one where im not wearing sunglasses...
Oscar Wilde
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GMOQR8B&key=DGX
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Here i am although this is about a year old, will change my pic and put a new one up soon.
MoAF
Don Juan
Jbberian... your a sexy som'*****! I wonder what I'll look like when I'm 18...
Anyways, how do you freelance model? I'm too poor to be affiliated with an agency, even though I've been approached 93874398 times to model.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NZR8RYO&key=XFG
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.