"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
booty-naughtyness-spur
Senior Don Juan
Squy
Master Don Juan
REd-xL
Master Don Juan
Actually, this one is 3 years old. Notice the bad clothing and stupid hair.
Random webcam pics and movies.
A bunch of pics from over the holidays.
More silly webcam pics.
No, that's not sh!t smeared on our faces....
These are over a month old. I'm a lot bigger now.
Rx
Blog: http://www.livejournal.com/users/charlatan
http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=AQEZKQ
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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jbbrain
Master Don Juan
thats me in mexico, tanned, relaxed, probably posing (just a little)
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Beebo
Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=NZR8K8B&key=WUH
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PiHiPlaya
Master Don Juan
Ded_Skin_Mask13
Banned
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Those were taken at the beach with my GQ shades on...
This is the lastest photo of me:
http://pix2.hotornot.com/pics/HQ/H8/NE/NY/NMRZBLOPLBVC.jpg
Damn, I gotta find one where im not wearing sunglasses...
Oscar Wilde
Master Don Juan
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GMOQR8B&key=DGX
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Here i am although this is about a year old, will change my pic and put a new one up soon.
MoAF
Don Juan
Jbberian... your a sexy som'*****! I wonder what I'll look like when I'm 18...
Anyways, how do you freelance model? I'm too poor to be affiliated with an agency, even though I've been approached 93874398 times to model.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.