"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah, have a shave and get an expensive haircut next time around and you'll be better looking than 90% of the people on this site wutang.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rebound Material

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ready123 said:
On Broadway.... I went to that club last summer, 10 homies, half had game, nobody got any play, we all got pissed and went to TJ

lol
hahah oh man! Besides a crap ass night what'd you think of it? So many hot b!tches there it hurts...I go there so much the fcukin bouncers and 1 of those bathroom guys knows us! lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rebound Material said:
hahah oh man! Besides a crap ass night what'd you think of it? So many hot b!tches there it hurts...I go there so much the fcukin bouncers and 1 of those bathroom guys knows us! lol.
yea it's a dope club. probably the only club I've been to where I've seen a line INSIDE the club

I could chill anywhere there except the reggaeton room
 

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
You're definitely a good-looking guy, Wutang. But a lot of us know women could care less.

What's happening with you(as it happens with lots of good-looking guys) is that you're self-esteem has plummeted because you're not getting vibes from many hotties. So, as a result you think you're unnattractive. But you need to realize(as you can see for yourself since you're obviously a good-looking guy) that women don't care about looks. Attraction works so much different for women, as it's been reiterated over and over. Men are the ones who pay attention to looks, women don't. Some do, but most don't.

I'm without a doubt, 100% positive, a good-looking guy. 100% certain of that. But at one time my self-esteem took a huge plunge. I thought I was unattractive because most hot women never gave me vibes. I got my self-esteem back because I've grown to realize that women don't care about a guys physical attractiveness. If you ever realize this, your self-esteem with shoot back up, because you will know that it's not your looks that's the problem.
 

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Wutang, if you're struggling with the ladies, then it's either because something isn't right with your body language or the way you're interacting(as anyone would say), OR you're just cursed with women or it's not in your cards to be pulling hot tail.
 

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Another thing Wutang. Become a fireman. Do something heroic/risky. You've got to "look" like you've walked a thousand miles through burning flames for a woman to take notice and go, "Whooow, I want That." They'll melt like butterflies. Piece of cake. Go mountain bike riding, handle snakes, four-wheeling in sand dunes, hang-gliding. Anything where you've got to steer. Cycling. When you look like you know where you're going and have good peripheral vision, women dig that. Motorcycle = instant puszy, just be careful and wear a helmet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I personally don't see what your saying but remember what we find as things needing corrected women will find sexy as hell..

Love yourself man your all you got..

I have excepted my eye condition and make the best of it. Let your personality shine through no one is perfect.

LoneSilver


wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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