Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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The guy on the right http://i9.tinypic.com/2rnzgax.jpg
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wow, dude, you look pretty badass in that picture.Aurelio Tiziano said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your like a mix between Chris Angel and Kid Rock lolPoonani Maker said:The guy on the right http://i9.tinypic.com/2rnzgax.jpg
On Broadway.... I went to that club last summer, 10 homies, half had game, nobody got any play, we all got pissed and went to TJRebound Material said:me and some friends at the club for friends bday
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hahah oh man! Besides a crap ass night what'd you think of it? So many hot b!tches there it hurts...I go there so much the fcukin bouncers and 1 of those bathroom guys knows us! lol.ready123 said:On Broadway.... I went to that club last summer, 10 homies, half had game, nobody got any play, we all got pissed and went to TJ
lol
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yea it's a dope club. probably the only club I've been to where I've seen a line INSIDE the clubRebound Material said:hahah oh man! Besides a crap ass night what'd you think of it? So many hot b!tches there it hurts...I go there so much the fcukin bouncers and 1 of those bathroom guys knows us! lol.
You're definitely a good-looking guy, Wutang. But a lot of us know women could care less.wutangfinancial said:just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg
If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wutangfinancial said:just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg
If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
Crazy Asian said:ell me wut ur first impression of me is.
like what kinda guy i am and how i look.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.