Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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The guy on the right http://i9.tinypic.com/2rnzgax.jpg
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chillisauce
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yeah, have a shave and get an expensive haircut next time around and you'll be better looking than 90% of the people on this site wutang.
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
http://photos-c.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v192/150/61/729290356/n729290356_2673410_6238.jpg
That's me, and the back of my car, coming back from a long trip to the beach.
That's me, and the back of my car, coming back from a long trip to the beach.
http://i179.photobucket.com/albums/w299/grifter024/GEDC3992.jpg
old picture, I shaved off mustache and put on more muscle and leaned out a little bit more but this should do.
old picture, I shaved off mustache and put on more muscle and leaned out a little bit more but this should do.
Wow, dude, you look pretty badass in that picture.Aurelio Tiziano said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
me and some friends at the club for friends bday
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...endID=453292&albumID=1009033&imageID=13777491
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/ind...endID=453292&albumID=1009033&imageID=13777491
ready123
Master Don Juan
On Broadway.... I went to that club last summer, 10 homies, half had game, nobody got any play, we all got pissed and went to TJRebound Material said:
lol
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
hahah oh man! Besides a crap ass night what'd you think of it? So many hot b!tches there it hurts...I go there so much the fcukin bouncers and 1 of those bathroom guys knows us! lol.ready123 said:
Vlad the Impaler
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ready123
Master Don Juan
yea it's a dope club. probably the only club I've been to where I've seen a line INSIDE the clubRebound Material said:
I could chill anywhere there except the reggaeton room
edger
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You're definitely a good-looking guy, Wutang. But a lot of us know women could care less.wutangfinancial said:
What's happening with you(as it happens with lots of good-looking guys) is that you're self-esteem has plummeted because you're not getting vibes from many hotties. So, as a result you think you're unnattractive. But you need to realize(as you can see for yourself since you're obviously a good-looking guy) that women don't care about looks. Attraction works so much different for women, as it's been reiterated over and over. Men are the ones who pay attention to looks, women don't. Some do, but most don't.
I'm without a doubt, 100% positive, a good-looking guy. 100% certain of that. But at one time my self-esteem took a huge plunge. I thought I was unattractive because most hot women never gave me vibes. I got my self-esteem back because I've grown to realize that women don't care about a guys physical attractiveness. If you ever realize this, your self-esteem with shoot back up, because you will know that it's not your looks that's the problem.
edger
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Wutang, if you're struggling with the ladies, then it's either because something isn't right with your body language or the way you're interacting(as anyone would say), OR you're just cursed with women or it's not in your cards to be pulling hot tail.
Poonani Maker
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Another thing Wutang. Become a fireman. Do something heroic/risky. You've got to "look" like you've walked a thousand miles through burning flames for a woman to take notice and go, "Whooow, I want That." They'll melt like butterflies. Piece of cake. Go mountain bike riding, handle snakes, four-wheeling in sand dunes, hang-gliding. Anything where you've got to steer. Cycling. When you look like you know where you're going and have good peripheral vision, women dig that. Motorcycle = instant puszy, just be careful and wear a helmet.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
I personally don't see what your saying but remember what we find as things needing corrected women will find sexy as hell..
Love yourself man your all you got..
I have excepted my eye condition and make the best of it. Let your personality shine through no one is perfect.
LoneSilver
Love yourself man your all you got..
I have excepted my eye condition and make the best of it. Let your personality shine through no one is perfect.
LoneSilver
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Crazy Asian
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here's me
http://www.hotornot.com/p/?select_pic=914521&state=photos&rand=81
after looking, tell me wut ur first impression of me is.
like what kinda guy i am and how i look.
http://www.hotornot.com/p/?select_pic=914521&state=photos&rand=81
after looking, tell me wut ur first impression of me is.
like what kinda guy i am and how i look.
facadegeniality
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.