"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rhoto said:
Some party at my house.
Rhoto, that Asian chick on your left(my right) is a piece of ass. The breasts could be a little better though. I hope you banged her. She looks like she might be pregnant. ?
 

Flabbergasped?

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Wow wutang, you don't look bad at all. Stop complaining.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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theunflushables

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But here's the thing wutang. You don't notice it until you say what to look for. Also be glad the symmetry isnt off as to where one eye actually sits higher. My mom has that and even then without really looking for it you don't notice it.
 

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I think they're called furrows. Alot of people have it/them. I wouldn't worry about it, you're being to hard on yourself Wu.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
you look italian

use that to your advantage.
 

theunflushables

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Exactly man, women arent neccesailry looking for looks. They're looking for a man that will excite them.

Focusing on your looks just causes insecurities. Hell, Owen Wilson has a goofy ass nose but he gets tail. Just gotta work through it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
You look normal to me, probably just the vibes you are giving off or something.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.

Dude, you look kinda like Jason Statham. You have nothing to complain about.
Go to the gym, and get a short haircut (and maybe an eyebrow trim), and you'll be pulling more ***** than Rod Stewart.

http://images.rottentomatoes.com/images/movie/allposters/mmph/253911.jpg
 

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I'll post up a pic later if i can find a camera, got my head shaved and look a bit silly but i'll put on a tough guy pose just for you.
 

Poonani Maker

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
Dude I don't see anything wrong with you. I'd shave the beard and mustache. Just goto church. You could definitely score you a bride there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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