"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rhoto said:
Some party at my house.
Rhoto, that Asian chick on your left(my right) is a piece of ass. The breasts could be a little better though. I hope you banged her. She looks like she might be pregnant. ?
 

Flabbergasped?

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Wow wutang, you don't look bad at all. Stop complaining.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But here's the thing wutang. You don't notice it until you say what to look for. Also be glad the symmetry isnt off as to where one eye actually sits higher. My mom has that and even then without really looking for it you don't notice it.
 

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I think they're called furrows. Alot of people have it/them. I wouldn't worry about it, you're being to hard on yourself Wu.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
you look italian

use that to your advantage.
 

theunflushables

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Exactly man, women arent neccesailry looking for looks. They're looking for a man that will excite them.

Focusing on your looks just causes insecurities. Hell, Owen Wilson has a goofy ass nose but he gets tail. Just gotta work through it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
You look normal to me, probably just the vibes you are giving off or something.
 

DogFashionDisco

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.

Dude, you look kinda like Jason Statham. You have nothing to complain about.
Go to the gym, and get a short haircut (and maybe an eyebrow trim), and you'll be pulling more ***** than Rod Stewart.

http://images.rottentomatoes.com/images/movie/allposters/mmph/253911.jpg
 

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I'll post up a pic later if i can find a camera, got my head shaved and look a bit silly but i'll put on a tough guy pose just for you.
 

Poonani Maker

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
Dude I don't see anything wrong with you. I'd shave the beard and mustache. Just goto church. You could definitely score you a bride there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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