"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rhoto said:
Some party at my house.
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Rhoto, that Asian chick on your left(my right) is a piece of ass. The breasts could be a little better though. I hope you banged her. She looks like she might be pregnant. ?
 
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Wow wutang, you don't look bad at all. Stop complaining.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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But here's the thing wutang. You don't notice it until you say what to look for. Also be glad the symmetry isnt off as to where one eye actually sits higher. My mom has that and even then without really looking for it you don't notice it.
 
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I think they're called furrows. Alot of people have it/them. I wouldn't worry about it, you're being to hard on yourself Wu.
 
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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
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you look italian

use that to your advantage.
 
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Exactly man, women arent neccesailry looking for looks. They're looking for a man that will excite them.

Focusing on your looks just causes insecurities. Hell, Owen Wilson has a goofy ass nose but he gets tail. Just gotta work through it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
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You look normal to me, probably just the vibes you are giving off or something.
 
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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
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Dude, you look kinda like Jason Statham. You have nothing to complain about.
Go to the gym, and get a short haircut (and maybe an eyebrow trim), and you'll be pulling more ***** than Rod Stewart.

http://images.rottentomatoes.com/images/movie/allposters/mmph/253911.jpg
 
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I'll post up a pic later if i can find a camera, got my head shaved and look a bit silly but i'll put on a tough guy pose just for you.
 
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wutangfinancial said:
just snapped a shirtless pic with my crap laptop camera...should really go back to the gym, lol

http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/KM/NQ/RMKUSQHXVLWD.jpg

If you notice, and I'm asking Stuka for advice, my main problem is an asymmetry between my two eyes. I don't think that can be corrected. Other than my height, that's my main insecurity.
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Dude I don't see anything wrong with you. I'd shave the beard and mustache. Just goto church. You could definitely score you a bride there.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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