"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OfficeSpace

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I'm sure the guys in the fitness forum can help you out bro. I have a very high metabolism too, but I've been able to gain weight slowly thanks to the help of some of the guys on here.

Eat more man... Drink plenty of water with vitamins. Start a high protein diet. Start working out. Little to no cardio. You won't be seing results in a week. Took me a month to start seing results.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Magnatolia said:
Unfortunately I can't bulk up. Extremely high metabolism. I've done the gym, home workout, drink 3 800 calorie shakes a day for a week (consumed about 4000 calories), nothing.
I'm in the same boat as you. I drink 2 800 calorie shakes a day, do a full workout every other day and push-ups/sit-ups on in between days, and I'm 6'2" and 165 pounds. *cries*
 

WhAcKeD!

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VegasGuy56 said:
I'm in the same boat as you. I drink 2 800 calorie shakes a day, do a full workout every other day and push-ups/sit-ups on in between days, and I'm 6'2" and 165 pounds. *cries*
Your going to need to take in alot more calories than that...

It's all about the diet, trying taking in 4000 - 5000 calories a day and see what happens.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OfficeSpace

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The point is we'll get some sort of an idea of how the people on this forum look like. From what I've seen so far.. It's comprised of mostly nerds :p
 

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Well, there's some decent-looking fellas here. I have learned the hard way not to post any too-personal information on the internet, no way no how, so you'll have to forgive me for not showing my pic, but in my completely unbiased opinion (of course) I belong to the upper half. Though NeonBase would probably think I look nerdy, as I wear glasses. =)

In the thread on how you rate your own appearance I clicked 3 out of 5, noting to my surprise that most posters, by far, clicked 4 or 5 for themselves. I began to wonder: is this a forum of male models? Judging from this thread I'd say no. It seems we look like an average mix, which is what you would expect. So what's with all the guys clicking 4 and 5? No, I won't say anything further - let's keep our dreams.... :)
 

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Friendly Otter said:
In the thread on how you rate your own appearance I clicked 3 out of 5, noting to my surprise that most posters, by far, clicked 4 or 5 for themselves. I began to wonder: is this a forum of male models? Judging from this thread I'd say no. It seems we look like an average mix, which is what you would expect. So what's with all the guys clicking 4 and 5? No, I won't say anything further - let's keep our dreams.... :)
I clicked 2 out of 5 :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ok,
on with the approval seeking!

Do you guys think I'm a nerd too?
 

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Oh my gosh, what a bunch!
Y'all some bums that's for sure.
Just makes the place all that more special, men, keep it up.

The dude with the 'fro is the bomb, however.
 

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Checkeddy Check the profile. I got a tan since then though...XD
 
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