"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OfficeSpace

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I'm sure the guys in the fitness forum can help you out bro. I have a very high metabolism too, but I've been able to gain weight slowly thanks to the help of some of the guys on here.

Eat more man... Drink plenty of water with vitamins. Start a high protein diet. Start working out. Little to no cardio. You won't be seing results in a week. Took me a month to start seing results.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VegasGuy56

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Magnatolia said:
Unfortunately I can't bulk up. Extremely high metabolism. I've done the gym, home workout, drink 3 800 calorie shakes a day for a week (consumed about 4000 calories), nothing.
I'm in the same boat as you. I drink 2 800 calorie shakes a day, do a full workout every other day and push-ups/sit-ups on in between days, and I'm 6'2" and 165 pounds. *cries*
 

WhAcKeD!

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VegasGuy56 said:
I'm in the same boat as you. I drink 2 800 calorie shakes a day, do a full workout every other day and push-ups/sit-ups on in between days, and I'm 6'2" and 165 pounds. *cries*
Your going to need to take in alot more calories than that...

It's all about the diet, trying taking in 4000 - 5000 calories a day and see what happens.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OfficeSpace

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The point is we'll get some sort of an idea of how the people on this forum look like. From what I've seen so far.. It's comprised of mostly nerds :p
 

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Well, there's some decent-looking fellas here. I have learned the hard way not to post any too-personal information on the internet, no way no how, so you'll have to forgive me for not showing my pic, but in my completely unbiased opinion (of course) I belong to the upper half. Though NeonBase would probably think I look nerdy, as I wear glasses. =)

In the thread on how you rate your own appearance I clicked 3 out of 5, noting to my surprise that most posters, by far, clicked 4 or 5 for themselves. I began to wonder: is this a forum of male models? Judging from this thread I'd say no. It seems we look like an average mix, which is what you would expect. So what's with all the guys clicking 4 and 5? No, I won't say anything further - let's keep our dreams.... :)
 

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Friendly Otter said:
In the thread on how you rate your own appearance I clicked 3 out of 5, noting to my surprise that most posters, by far, clicked 4 or 5 for themselves. I began to wonder: is this a forum of male models? Judging from this thread I'd say no. It seems we look like an average mix, which is what you would expect. So what's with all the guys clicking 4 and 5? No, I won't say anything further - let's keep our dreams.... :)
I clicked 2 out of 5 :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Holland

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Ok,
on with the approval seeking!

Do you guys think I'm a nerd too?
 

MrS

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Oh my gosh, what a bunch!
Y'all some bums that's for sure.
Just makes the place all that more special, men, keep it up.

The dude with the 'fro is the bomb, however.
 

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Checkeddy Check the profile. I got a tan since then though...XD
 
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