"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There have been a lot of threads lately about looks and such and its impact/correlation on game....it would help a lot with some of these stories to put a face behind them to see what we are dealing with. I will post one tomorrow....have to go get a usb connector for my smart phone. We could even let the female members rate us to see what other women think about us fist impression.....sounds lame, but it would be a good indicator of how much you need to improve physical appearance before whining way on here about life not being fair and such.

I feel like i am decent looking, but i could be much better looking and appealing to women if i hit the gym hardcore and became ripped......plus i just like the feeling of being ripped..was that way in college but lost it......i am thinking of buying that insanity 60 day workout program and doing it every day religiously and not ever stopping if it is good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why don't you just google "gay porn" and get it over with?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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But why would you need a thread for that? There is already a rating system called "online dating". If you are getting tail on the internet then you are fine. If you are sending 50 messges out and barely getting any responses then you are not hot enough to succeed or thrive with online dating.

So, suppose someone has an ugly face or looks ackward, are you going to say going to the gym is going to fix that? Some things can't be improved.
 
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I wouldn't mind posting my picture, but to be honest, I don't think any constructive criticism will be given; "work out more", "be more muscular", "be taller" haha..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I look like my mom. I wish I had my dads manlier facial face.

Some girls think I am asian most of the time. Haha.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright... Here is a progress pic I put together the other day for my own future reference as I buld my mass. The left pic is a year ago. The right pic is a few days ago.



I'm 6'2 (just a tad under like 6'1 3/4" and aprox 195lbs
 
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No point in posting my pic. I'm a George Clooney look a like, only I probably have a much bigger d!ck than he does.
 
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Espi said:
Great photos.

Just lose the hospital bracelet.
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Haha, it was due to the hotel we stayed at, you had to have the bracelet
For the 'All-inclusive'.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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