"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zinc4

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There have been a lot of threads lately about looks and such and its impact/correlation on game....it would help a lot with some of these stories to put a face behind them to see what we are dealing with. I will post one tomorrow....have to go get a usb connector for my smart phone. We could even let the female members rate us to see what other women think about us fist impression.....sounds lame, but it would be a good indicator of how much you need to improve physical appearance before whining way on here about life not being fair and such.

I feel like i am decent looking, but i could be much better looking and appealing to women if i hit the gym hardcore and became ripped......plus i just like the feeling of being ripped..was that way in college but lost it......i am thinking of buying that insanity 60 day workout program and doing it every day religiously and not ever stopping if it is good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why don't you just google "gay porn" and get it over with?
 

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Lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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But why would you need a thread for that? There is already a rating system called "online dating". If you are getting tail on the internet then you are fine. If you are sending 50 messges out and barely getting any responses then you are not hot enough to succeed or thrive with online dating.

So, suppose someone has an ugly face or looks ackward, are you going to say going to the gym is going to fix that? Some things can't be improved.
 

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I wouldn't mind posting my picture, but to be honest, I don't think any constructive criticism will be given; "work out more", "be more muscular", "be taller" haha..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jair213

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I look like my mom. I wish I had my dads manlier facial face.

Some girls think I am asian most of the time. Haha.

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alright... Here is a progress pic I put together the other day for my own future reference as I buld my mass. The left pic is a year ago. The right pic is a few days ago.



I'm 6'2 (just a tad under like 6'1 3/4" and aprox 195lbs
 

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No point in posting my pic. I'm a George Clooney look a like, only I probably have a much bigger d!ck than he does.
 

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Espi said:
Great photos.

Just lose the hospital bracelet.
Haha, it was due to the hotel we stayed at, you had to have the bracelet
For the 'All-inclusive'.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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