"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What can we learn from our Beta Bucks field reports? IE: Buying women drinks for conversation, gifts in an effort to have them “owe” us and or “like” us etc. We see it happen with the rich, famous all the time.

Like the Beatles said: Money can’t buy me love. Still rings true today.


Post your personal beta bucks Field Reports ITT and let’s discuss.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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haha....several years ago I went on my first date post divorce. Girl was a solid 8. Same age as me.

1. I picked her up at her apartment and gave her a rose. :D
2. I took her to Outback Steakhouse and my lord could that girl drink Dos Equis and eat some steak. The bill was $85 and that was 10years ago. :eek:
3. I got special balcony seat tickets for a concert after we ate. That was another $80 down the drain. o_O
4. On the way home she started asking me questions about my ex wife. I divulged too much info and sealed my fate. :(
5. The following week she agreed to go out on a 2nd date, so I picked her up at her apartment again. She wouldn't come to the door this time. :rolleyes: I was disappointed and had no clue.

But the funny thing is, I've observed this girl on social media for several years now. I've seen her pop up on various dating sites. Her body still looks great but her face is wrinkled from getting too much sun. She jumps from one crappy job to another. She rides one cahk for a while then finds another one. She still lives with her mom. Daddy pays for her cars. She was a personal groupie of a certain NASCAR driver and finally got her chance with him. I've seen the pictures of her and him in his RV at the track. hahaha.

Thank you sweet baby jesus that I acted so beta and scared her off. Back then I would have been clueless about all of the red flags with her and signed up for that schitt.

I thank every one of these ho's for treating me like schitt and teaching me the lessons they did. Because now days it is very rare that one gets a leg up on me. I beat them to the punch every time. I invest very little attention or money in women these days.
 
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For all my talk about MONEY MONEY MONEY...

I've spent $0 on any girl unless it was a direct exchange of cash for sex.

I've even stopped tipping certain bartenders if I am not 100% satisfied with their service. They make me wait 1 minute for no reason? No tip. They call me "babe," no tip. I don't like their face? No tip.
 

Derek Flint

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If a girl likes you, she will still like you whether you spend .00 cents on her or $200.00

If not, you spent nothing to find that out...
 

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What can we learn from our Beta Bucks field reports? IE: Buying women drinks for conversation, gifts in an effort to have them “owe” us and or “like” us etc. We see it happen with the rich, famous all the time.

Like the Beatles said: Money can’t buy me love. Still rings true today.


Post your personal beta bucks Field Reports ITT and let’s discuss.
Just go read any of BigNeil's threads, or posts...he's full of them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just go read any of BigNeil's threads, or posts...he's full of them.
I've been waiting for him to trip over himself in a meltdown itt telling me I'm a black woman on welfare.

everyone that doesn't yes his fragile ego to death has to be a black woman on welfare.
 
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