"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What can we learn from our Beta Bucks field reports? IE: Buying women drinks for conversation, gifts in an effort to have them “owe” us and or “like” us etc. We see it happen with the rich, famous all the time.

Like the Beatles said: Money can’t buy me love. Still rings true today.


Post your personal beta bucks Field Reports ITT and let’s discuss.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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haha....several years ago I went on my first date post divorce. Girl was a solid 8. Same age as me.

1. I picked her up at her apartment and gave her a rose. :D
2. I took her to Outback Steakhouse and my lord could that girl drink Dos Equis and eat some steak. The bill was $85 and that was 10years ago. :eek:
3. I got special balcony seat tickets for a concert after we ate. That was another $80 down the drain. o_O
4. On the way home she started asking me questions about my ex wife. I divulged too much info and sealed my fate. :(
5. The following week she agreed to go out on a 2nd date, so I picked her up at her apartment again. She wouldn't come to the door this time. :rolleyes: I was disappointed and had no clue.

But the funny thing is, I've observed this girl on social media for several years now. I've seen her pop up on various dating sites. Her body still looks great but her face is wrinkled from getting too much sun. She jumps from one crappy job to another. She rides one cahk for a while then finds another one. She still lives with her mom. Daddy pays for her cars. She was a personal groupie of a certain NASCAR driver and finally got her chance with him. I've seen the pictures of her and him in his RV at the track. hahaha.

Thank you sweet baby jesus that I acted so beta and scared her off. Back then I would have been clueless about all of the red flags with her and signed up for that schitt.

I thank every one of these ho's for treating me like schitt and teaching me the lessons they did. Because now days it is very rare that one gets a leg up on me. I beat them to the punch every time. I invest very little attention or money in women these days.
 
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For all my talk about MONEY MONEY MONEY...

I've spent $0 on any girl unless it was a direct exchange of cash for sex.

I've even stopped tipping certain bartenders if I am not 100% satisfied with their service. They make me wait 1 minute for no reason? No tip. They call me "babe," no tip. I don't like their face? No tip.
 

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If a girl likes you, she will still like you whether you spend .00 cents on her or $200.00

If not, you spent nothing to find that out...
 

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What can we learn from our Beta Bucks field reports? IE: Buying women drinks for conversation, gifts in an effort to have them “owe” us and or “like” us etc. We see it happen with the rich, famous all the time.

Like the Beatles said: Money can’t buy me love. Still rings true today.


Post your personal beta bucks Field Reports ITT and let’s discuss.
Just go read any of BigNeil's threads, or posts...he's full of them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just go read any of BigNeil's threads, or posts...he's full of them.
I've been waiting for him to trip over himself in a meltdown itt telling me I'm a black woman on welfare.

everyone that doesn't yes his fragile ego to death has to be a black woman on welfare.
 
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