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Probably, but I think it has gotten me more in to trouble than anything.Maybe you have an high IQ score
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Probably, but I think it has gotten me more in to trouble than anything.Maybe you have an high IQ score
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I like some Astronomy but I need a lot of times to visualize the movement in the solar system. In your brain do you see it like an animation? How many things in movement can you visualize?All it means is that you have to work at different things harder than a person with a lower IQ.
I used to get A's in school barely studying or opening a book. Lower IQ people had to study their asses off to get B's or C's sometimes.
I had to work very hard to come out of my introvert shell and learn how to be extroverted when I need to be and be social and learn how to talk with women. That was very difficult for me and I had to work really hard at it. Being in sales was the best thing that happened in that regard...you learn how to interact with people or you don't eat. Forces you to learn and adapt really quick. For some of the other lower IQ people it came easy.
You never have to accept where you are at in life with anything. All this means is that each person will have to work harder at certain things than other things to improve at them, whereas those things come easy for other people.
Now, you may never get to a point where you are as good as someone who it comes naturally to no matter how hard you work at it, but there is no reason you can't greatly improve from where you are at currently.
Why that?Probably, but I think it has gotten me more in to trouble than anything.
I have never even thought of anything like that to be honest. I don't try to do it, it just happens...I am not sure how to explain how or why, it just does.I like some Astronomy but I need a lot of times to visualize the movement in the solar system. In your brain do you see it like an animation? How many things in movement can you visualize?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Now if you tried to visualize the solar system and the movement of planets. The tilt of the earth and all. Or let's say you watch a animation about it. Can you kind of visualize it like an animation?I have never even thought of anything like that to be honest. I don't try to do it, it just happens...I am not sure how to explain how or why, it just does.
Often times when I think back to an event that happened I can see it playing in my mind like I am watching a movie and can remember pretty specific details that sometimes seem weird. It's not like a photographic memory, but it would kind of be a few levels down from that.
1). I never developed a solid work ethic or grind mindset and struggle with performing mundane activities.Why that?
I see. On paper a high IQ guy should be able to be much quicker to accomplish the bucket lists like being financially independent. Do all kinds of self improvement levels like Joe Rogan. Doing ice bath and al that stuff but I guess most high IQ guys do not need that stuff anyway as they solve problems easily as they come I guess.1). I never developed a solid work ethic or grind mindset and struggle with performing mundane activities.
2). I cannot relate to most people and get severely irritated by low-mid IQ characteristics such as Platitude/Words of Affirmation worship and being unable to make your own constructive thoughts.
3). I overthink a lot which leads to stress, anxiety, drinking lol, and sleep issues.
4). I am extremely impatient lol.
5). As a tall, muscular, 6-foot-1 black man, society often places expectations on me to fit into the role of an entertainer or something similar.
6). I can be mistaken for an @$$hole
Like @BackInTheGame78, I struggled with my career until I got into sales in which I am doing exceptionally well in. However, the economy is causing politics and micromanagement to creep into the field more so though
Here is a quick acid test to check if you are medium-above medium IQ right now! If you need words of affirmation, platitudes, or motivational crap to aid yourself then you are not high IQ. You are medium or below medium IQ lol.
High IQ does not make you a God. This is a hard to reach/unsustainable accomplishment regardless.I see. On paper a high IQ guy should be able to be much quicker to accomplish the bucket lists like being financially independent.
I wouldn't associate these with High IQ TBH. In fact, having a lower IQ would be more beneficial for self-improvement like the gym because high IQ people do not enjoy grinding, mundane tasks, and tend to question authority and processes. Athleticism and the gym came easy to me because I am gifted genetically with the strongest human genes (75% West African and 25% Scandinavian ancestry), so I only need to put in 30% of the work at the gym. If I didn't have this gift then I would be screwed lol.Do all kinds of self improvement levels like Joe Rogan. Doing ice bath and al that stuff but I guess most high IQ guys do not need that stuff anyway as they solve problems easily as they come I guess
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's absolutely untrue and terrible advice. The people who are at the pinnacle of their professions and highest level athletes use those on a daily basis along with visualizations.1). I never developed a solid work ethic or grind mindset and struggle with performing mundane activities.
2). I cannot relate to most people and get severely irritated by low-mid IQ characteristics such as Platitude/Words of Affirmation worship and being unable to make your own constructive thoughts.
3). I overthink a lot which leads to stress, anxiety, drinking lol, and sleep issues.
4). I am extremely impatient lol.
5). As a tall, muscular, 6-foot-1 black man, society often places expectations on me to fit into the role of an entertainer or something similar.
6). I can be mistaken for an @$$hole
Like @BackInTheGame78, I struggled with my career until I got into sales in which I am doing exceptionally well in. However, the economy is causing politics and micromanagement to creep into the field more so though
Here is a quick acid test to check if you are medium-above medium IQ right now! If you need words of affirmation, platitudes, or motivational crap to aid yourself then you are not high IQ. You are medium or below medium IQ lol.
Sorry but it is completely truth. Words of Affirmation and Platitudes are for the sheep. Highest level athletes and top professions were gifted with genetics & opportunities to get them to the places they are today, not because of some platitude they read on Facebook.That's absolutely untrue and terrible advice. The people who are at the pinnacle of their professions and highest level athletes use those on a daily basis along with visualizations.
You simply don't have a good understanding of how the brain works and how the Law of Attraction works and why.
Why don't high IQ people like grinding tasks when they know how beneficial they can be? They should know how things work better than most.High IQ does not make you a God. This is a hard to reach/unsustainable accomplishment regardless.
I wouldn't associate these with High IQ TBH. In fact, having a lower IQ would be more beneficial for self-improvement like the gym because high IQ people do not enjoy grinding, mundane tasks, and tend to question authority and processes. Athleticism and the gym came easy to me because I am gifted genetically with the strongest human genes (75% West African and 25% Scandinavian ancestry), so I only need to put in 30% of the work at the gym. If I didn't have this gift then I would be screwed lol.
But some high IQ people might have emotional problems like OVERTHINKING. Mantras and affirmation can help against that.Sorry but it is completely truth. Words of Affirmation and Platitudes are for the sheep. Highest level athletes and top professions were gifted with genetics & opportunities to get them to the places they are today, not because of some platitude they read on Facebook.
I think you are giving High IQ people a god complex. High IQ people have flaws like everyone else. The recent Movie Oppenheimer demonstrates an excellent example of how to outwit a person with a high IQ.Why don't high IQ people like grinding tasks when they know how beneficial they can be? They should know how things work better than most.
I will die on this hillBut some high IQ people might have emotional problems like OVERTHINKING. Mantras and affirmation can help against that.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
But yet there are plenty of people who are as gifted or more gifted genetically that never reach that level they have. Why do you think that is?Sorry but it is completely truth. Words of Affirmation and Platitudes are for the sheep. Highest level athletes and top professions were gifted with genetics & opportunities to get them to the places they are today, not because of some platitude they read on Facebook.
calm down Hank Moody!I will not out them by name, but will offer a hint toward their identities. These two are notorious for almost always finding a way to respond to any topic and instead of helping a fellow-brother... they'll typically seek some sort of opportunity to speak highly about themselves.
1). Lack of Luck/Opportunities or having a lot of negative life outcomes prevent them from springing forwardBut yet there are plenty of people who are as gifted or more gifted genetically that never reach that level they have. Why do you think that is?
You have a lot to learn in life.
Bro, te pusiste el saco?calm down Hank Moody!
Wrong. There is no luck in life. People make their own luck. The people who seemingly had something happen out of nowhere that gives them their big break are usually the ones who have been working tirelessly at it for years without seeing any results but kept going and kept believing in themselves.calm down Hank Moody!
1). Lack of Luck/Opportunities or having a lot of negative life outcomes prevent them from springing forward
The Movie Pursuit of Happyness highlights an intelligent person born in the wrong circumstance that needs luck and opportunities to go his way. Fortunately, they do. 12 years a slave is another example. The guy is clearly gifted in intelligence but was born in the US during slavery and gets kidnapped by slave catchers.
2). Poor Work Ethic/Lethargic mindset- This prevents a person from capitalizing on the luck/opportunities that do present themselves and puts him or her in to lesser situations.
The Movie Office Space is a good example of a smart person in a lethargic position because of poor work ethic or laziness lol. Lip from Shameless is a mix of number 2 and 3, really smart but not motivated at all due to poverty and being complacent. Piggybacking to The Pursuit of Happyness, if the main character lacked the work ethic and motivation to get out of his situation, he would have just been a poor person with high IQ.
3). Bad Environments- Self-explanatory
Again, high IQ doesn't equate to being a GOD.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.