Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Zappati said:
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.

Also, Im a total believer & totally respect in the " different strokes for different folks", but even still, I suppose Im just a LITTLE bit surprised that, in a 9 page thread, Im only the 2nd guy who even gave this woman any interest. But hey..different strokes...
You should go to the favelas in Brazil. Try the Northeast section or the Rio area of the country. Take some serious protection with you. You will need it. Avoid the South and chic places like Floripa. In other words, avoid the nice clean parts where the people look like this...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGVgAsZp15c&feature=related

Funny how Americans only see the worst parts of places. Then they celebrate it. Most of the comments about that fat Favela creature are from? - Americans! The video I show the comments are all Brazilian. Interesting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zappati said:
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.

Also, Im a total believer & totally respect in the " different strokes for different folks", but even still, I suppose Im just a LITTLE bit surprised that, in a 9 page thread, Im only the 2nd guy who even gave this woman any interest. But hey..different strokes...
She is my number 1 pick as well love Andressa Soares.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CuriousGirl,

Kelly Brook is a babe and who knows you might have been in that TV part they will be filming too and would have been discovered and would have been going on to fame and riches.... gosh darn it!

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I've just had the most awesome/horrific news, Kelly Brook, my joint second biggest ever crush, will be filming a tv episode in the gym of the club I work NEXT WEEK! But I'm in France that day, when I would have usually had a shift, I'm SO upset.

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2009/09/17/article-1213941-0674CAFB000005DC-979_306x503.jpg

*sigh*
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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:up: You really outdid yourself D&B! That was your best one yet.

This thread brings back memories of a girl from my past. She was just perfectly proportioned (slim waist, big behind, beautiful face, beautiful blonde hair, short but not too short, all woman). She turned heads everyday. D&B, you being an expert of curvy girls you know what I mean when you look at one and you say to yourself damn she looks like a woman! One that you put right next to another female and makes the other female look like a boy in terms of body and femininity.

I treated her like nothing, and she loved me...I am cursed to this day.

The thing with us curvy women lovers that most people don't understand is that it's hard for us to have it any other way. I personally have gone without dating for longs periods of time because I couldn't find the right women. It's like you see a good curvy woman and it's instant attraction where as I could be looking at the cheerleaders of the football team and they do nothing for me. I had plenty of women in my life shoot me signals that I ignored because they didn't do nothing for me whereas I found myself attracted to thick curvy women that most guys wouldn't consider beautiful or hot but they just had the curvy bodies that i'm attracted to.

It's a real obsession. It's a lot worse than those that say they have "yellow fever" and only date asian women. Good thick curvy women are extremely hard to find whereas there are hundreds of millions of asian women out there for you.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Drum&Bass again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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