You guys need to relax. I've never seen so much anger towards a group of people just because of their preference in women. If anything you should be glad that they're taking care of the fatty while you're trying to game the skinny friend.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So...a girl needs to have a FLAT ASS with tooth pick / chicken legs, FAKE or TINY Boobs and look like a skeleton to be considered skinny and attractive.If anything you should be glad that they're taking care of the fatty while you're trying to game the skinny friend.
Its a woman with a TIGHT HEALTHY BODY. She does have muscle with low body fat...is that a bad thing ???cor-dumb cor-dumb said:Yep.....this is a 6 with a 12 year old boy body according to the fattie lovers here.....
http://www.wwtdd.com/enlargedimage/?...&postid=591781
And this is a 9 or 10 according to them....
http://images.tmuscle.com/forum_images/c/2/c2739-dscf0688vc5.jpg
Righttttttttttttttttt. Is that a man?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gorgeous contribution brother, I couldn't believe how hot dem girls were:cheer:speakeasy said:Any girl on this site: http://hiphopvideomodels.net/thegirls.html
Fat women have low whr even before getting fat, its geneticKupid Diggs said:I kind of get where cordoncordon is coming from. Once most of these thick/curvy women have kids, it's over for them. They will no longer be thick/curvy, but will now be fat/obese. A few women can get their bodies back after bearing children, but more times than not they become fatties. I've seen this happen many times with women I grew up with and went to high school with.
Now I do like thick and curvy females but in the back of my mind I'm just thinking short term with them. When I start to seek out a woman to have a long term relationship with and possibly have her bear my kids, I'm going to seek out a skinny petite woman. The thinking is, she'll thicken out once I pop a few kids out of her.
Make sense?
no comprende. you are not making any sense whatsoever! i think you and cordoncordon should make a thread about your favorate skinny women and leave this one alone.Kupid Diggs said:I kind of get where cordoncordon is coming from. Once most of these thick/curvy women have kids, it's over for them. They will no longer be thick/curvy, but will now be fat/obese. A few women can get their bodies back after bearing children, but more times than not they become fatties. I've seen this happen many times with women I grew up with and went to high school with.
Now I do like thick and curvy females but in the back of my mind I'm just thinking short term with them. When I start to seek out a woman to have a long term relationship with and possibly have her bear my kids, I'm going to seek out a skinny petite woman. The thinking is, she'll thicken out once I pop a few kids out of her.
Make sense?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm 6 feet and about 210, and im not fat as I work out quite a bit. Ok, I hate to bring out the big guns but here is a pic of my gf. She's about 5'6" and 115, and trust me, while I am quite a big bigger than her, I hardly crush her lol. BTW she has medium C cup breasts. I swear some of your guys ego's are the size of Mt. Everest.A-Unit said:I'll bite on the trolling.
I'm 6ft, 205 and any 'tiny' girl would be crushed and dwarfed. I like to see a butt jiggle, even if it means a little more weight.
A-Unit
I guess that sentence alone would explain your entire view on this matter lol.A-Unit said:I'll bite on the trolling.
I Personally think prego chicks are hot, too, but that's for another forum.
A-Unit
I noticed that it's usually skinny guys (like myself) who have a thick girl fetish.cordoncordon said:It would be interesting to see if there is a correlation between guys who like curvy or chubby girls and if those guys are either A) Black, or B) bigger guys, lets say 225 or higher. The same would go for the guys who like the smaller more petite girls who weight under 125 or so. Are they generally A) not black, and B) weighing under 200?
BTW...Im only bring up many black people liking bigger girls because....well Im sure they will be the first to admit they do lol. In fact many on this thread have already said they do. That isn't being racist.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hmmmm Interesting on the skinny guy theory.Semtex said:I noticed that it's usually skinny guys (like myself) who have a thick girl fetish.
Yes, I am black.
They all shop at Lane Bryant.f283000 said:
No doubt she is a pretty woman. And even prettier now that she has LOST weight.f283000 said:
Typical trailer trash that middle American thinks is hot nowadays. Nothing remotely attractive about her. No class either.f283000 said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.