Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The minute i saw this thread i said: "Rollo's going to be in here talking about 'cows' " =)Rollo Tomassi said:If these cows are your target demographic why learn Game at all? All you'd need is a deep-frier and a dozen Krispy Kremes to get 'em to come home with you.
Not herebukowski_merit said:2) (this is especially true if she doesn't have a 8+ face) They ASSUME they are easier to get. There's a certain belief among A LOT of people that really skinny, model type girls are stuck-up/unapproachable. I bet anyone $100 that if you send a typical model looking woman into a crowded mall, and a THICK decent looking woman into the same mall - the THICK girl will get hit on MUCH more than the model looking girl.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is a bullshit shaming technique. Refer to my first example. Most petite girls I see who put emphasis on having a pretty (FAKE) face are usually lacking in the body department and in the case of most red blooded men, a girls face is like any other face. All she needs are the features to be intact, proportionate, nice teeth, nice hair and decent skin, and its enough for her to be attractive.2) (this is especially true if she doesn't have a 8+ face) They ASSUME they are easier to get. There's a certain belief among A LOT of people that really skinny, model type girls are stuck-up/unapproachable. I bet anyone $100 that if you send a typical model looking woman into a crowded mall, and a THICK decent looking woman into the same mall - the THICK girl will get hit on MUCH more than the model looking girl.
except he was a lot more respectful about it.I have noticed that people seem to go for women more based on their own structure. I don't mean fat, more like ectomorph vs mesomorph. I come from a skinny delineation but have always been more into the skinny girls. my friend is more of the mesomorph ( looking at his sister she is too), and goes for the bigger ones. Yet other friend is in the ectomorph category as well (as is his sister), and his tastes are more congruent to mine.
I hope that one dude wasn't me because I do hate it when I'm in conflict with Drum&Bass. I certainly don't like my skull being crushed to pieces.Drum&Bass said:i said it before in another threat (one dude got his feelings hurt) and i'll say it again in this thread.
scrawny weak men are attracted to scrawny-ER weak-ER women.
I'm not sure where you're disagreeing with what i said because i don't disagree with you. I said thicker women get hit on more!Drum&Bass said:bukowski_merit
I think that theory is flawed. If 2 girls with the same modelesque type faces (twins) were to go into a club and the only difference between them were their bodies one girl having curvier features and the other being thin/petite, the woman with the curves will get hit on more.
im not sure what you're talking about again. how is it a shaming technique? once again, im agreeing with you and saying that thicker women get hit on more.Drum&Bass said:This is a bullshit shaming technique. Refer to my first example. Most petite girls I see who put emphasis on having a pretty face are usually lacking in the body and in the case of most red blooded men, a girls face is like any other face. If the features are intact and in proportion with nice teeth and decent skin, she's attractive.
I don't disagree... but then...Drum&Bass said:I think guys who criticize other guys choice in women are like chicks...and for some reason seem to think that their opinion is absolute...when in reality it isnt.
this kind of conflicts with what you just said (and i AM NOT one of those men who likes toothpick women!) you say we shouldn't criticize other guys choices in women (which i agree with) and then you go and blatantly insult guys for liking a certain type of woman.Drum&Bass said:scrawny weak men are attracted to scrawny-ER weak-ER women.
and I thought you were hinting that I was setting my sights low because of a lack of esteem or confidence.I'm basically saying the same thing you said above!
Except im even saying that if the skinny women is much better looking in the face... I think the THICK girl will still get hit on more!
Unless what you're disagreeing with is me saying part of the reason is that guys see them as more approachable.
Just a bit of emotion I added to my post, your good Jules nothin personalI hope that one dude wasn't me because I do hate it when I'm in conflict with Drum&Bass. I certainly don't like my skull being crushed to pieces.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's not this at all. It is a lack of an objective definition of "curvy". See, some land whales like to make themselves feel better by replacing "fat disgusting manatee" with "hurrrrrr i'm curvy". Just go to any dating site and look up some fatties and note how many have answered "curvy" for bodytype. It is not a lack of taste in the male community, but an utter distortion of reality from the female side. Curves, as has been noted, have everything to do with hip/chest ratio. Having a giant gut or bulging love handles destroys this ratio and makes a curvy girl into a fat slob.mrRuckus said:Now I totally understand why fat chicks think they have a chance with me. They are used to the attentions of guys like in here.
Not meant as an insult. I was just perplexed. I didn't know they were so popular. Explains why they have an attitude too.
We are talking about curvy girls and you don't know what curvy girls are brother.Rollo Tomassi said:Fat is fat, but contributing:
http://www.dlisted.com/node/37504
http://www.crabbygolightly.com/images/ivana_trump.jpg
Anyone know who the woman in the pic is?SrDedosRapidos said:I submit the following page as evidence;
http://www.facebook.com/search/?pos...arch&sid=-rUtuEEh796nCZBqHZyEEg.1122649924..1
Kim Kardashian.f283000 said:Anyone know who the woman in the pic is?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.